Yeah so now you're jumping to the concept of perseverance... It's actually not so strange, because as I've said... and I'm going to quote J.I. Packer (as of July of 2020, just short of his 94th birthday, deceased; a great British pastor and theologian) here, because it cannot be stated any clearer or better than this:
"...the very act of setting out Calvinistic soteriology in the form of five distinct points (a number due, as we saw, merely to the fact that there were five Arminian points for the Synod of Dort to answer) tends to obscure the organic character of Calvinistic thought on this subject. For the five points, though separately stated, are really inseparable. They hang together; you cannot reject one without rejecting them all, at least in the sense in which the Synod meant them. For to Calvinism there is really only one point to be made in the field of soteriology: the point that God saves sinners. God—the Triune Jehovah, Father, Son and Spirit; three Persons working together in sovereign wisdom, power and love to achieve the salvation of a chosen people, the Father electing, the Son fulfilling the Father’s will by redeeming, the Spirit executing the purpose of Father and Son by renewing. Saves—does everything, first to last, that is involved in bringing man from death in sin to life in glory: plans, achieves and communicates redemption, calls and keeps, justifies, sanctifies, glorifies. Sinners—men as God finds them, guilty, vile, helpless, powerless, unable to lift a finger to do God’s will or better their spiritual lot. God saves sinners—and the force of this confession may not be weakened by disrupting the unity of the work of the Trinity, or by dividing the achievement of salvation between God and man and making the decisive part man’s own, or by soft pedaling the sinner’s inability so as to allow him to share the praise of his salvation with his Saviour. This is the one point of Calvinistic soteriology which the “five points” are concerned to establish and Arminianism in all its forms to deny: namely, that sinners do not save themselves in any sense at all, but that salvation, first and last, whole and entire, past, present and future, is of the Lord, to whom be glory for ever; amen."
Catholics are not Arminianists. They CAN’T be because Arminius came on the scene about 15 centuries AFTER the Catholic Church was established by the Apostles.
They understand Scripture ~ regarding soteriology ~ very, very similar to the way Arminius did... and, as I have said, very, very similar to Pelagius (354–418) centuries before... who, in that day, held to a soteriology directly opposite ~ in the same way as Arminius to Calvin ~ to Augustine of Hippo, As Solomon says in Ecclesiastes, there's nothing new under the sun...
We’re not required to take a gift – or even keep one after initially accepting it.
Don't make something of God into something of man, BreadOfLife. Regarding God's gift of salvation... well, what Paul and Peter say is very appropriate here:
"If God is for us, who can be against us? ... Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? ... No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him Who loved us ... neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Paul, Romans 8:31-39)
"He (God) Who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ" (Paul, Philippians 1:6).
"(God) has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who by God’s power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time." (Peter, 1 Peter 1:3-5).
Divorce is a good example. You receive love and fidelity from your spouse – but later on decide to leave that covenant. Does this mean that you never loved them or were never married?
Hmmm. Now, if I were to do this, BreadOfLife, would this not be a statement regarding my own faithfulness... or, well, actually, my lack thereof? <
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smile> ...and overcomes our lack thereof, keeping us in Christ, and thereby... well, see directly above.
I understand how difficult is it for Protestants to see this...
Well, Calvinists. <
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see it, but realize how antithetical it would be or is, Scripturally speaking, to embrace it... <
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...the Protestant Revolt in the 16th century was borne from ecclesiastical divorce . . .
So goes the Catholic talking point and narrative... <
smile> Other denominations "see" the same kind of thing... <
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Grace and peace to you.