Is God who elected those who he would save, disregarding everyone else...
I would surely disagree that he "disregarded everyone else." That brings up a great point, that the opposite of love is not hate, but rather not caring, and thus disregarding. I would absolutely disagree with the statement that God's having elected some means he disregarded others. Regarding those who are not members of His Elect, even God's pronouncement of eternal judgment upon a person and the subsequent placing of that person in a place of and under that eternal judgment ~ which is what will happen for all those on Jesus's proverbial left at the Final Judgment ~ is an act of love. That may be hard to fathom, but as a father, I can pronounce judgment upon my son (for a very limited time, of course, and in a much lesser sense) because of what he may have done, but that does not mean I do not love him, nor even does it mean that I do it in anything other than love.
and send them to be burning and screaming and literal flames?
This has been discussed, but we should disavow the idea of literally burning in literal fire. The "fire" is God's all-encompassing judgment devoid of His grace, compassion, and mercy. Likewise the idea of literal torture or tormenting; the utter hopelessness and anguish the person endures will be his torment through eternity, his "worm that will not die," as Jesus puts it in Mark 9 ~ not a literal worm, but what figuratively "eats away at him" and does not abate, forever and ever. Jesus Himself describes hell as a place of total darkness (Matthew 8:12, 22:13, 25:30), which would denote at the least the absence of light, whereas light is actually produced by literal flames/fire.
Everyone is allowed to believe what they want, aren’t they?
Well, sure.
And aren’t we suppose to love the Calvinist?
LOL! Well, yes, I suppose... :) I am an unapologetic Calvinist; I believe John Calvin was right about Scripture. Are you saying you are a Calvinist, Matthew? Or not?
Hey Devin, you understand everyone in the old testament’s went to hell?
I hope not, because that surely is not the case. Have we not just been discussing Abraham? :) The Abraham of Genesis 13-17? The one who, as Moses writes in Genesis 15:6, believed God, and it was counted to him righteousness? And the one Jesus uses in His parable in Luke 16?
Even Jesus went to hell too, dying on the cross. Did you know that?
Hm. Well, Jesus said to the thief crucified on His right that he would be with Him that very day in paradise (Luke 23:43). What I would say, Matthew, is that Jesus
did endure hell ~ being placed under the judgment of God ~
while on the cross.
Yes, Peter, in 1 Peter 3, says Jesus
"went and proclaimed to the spirits in prison... in the days of Noah." We should understand this in the
same light as what Peter says of us as Christians
now, we who
"live for the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God" (1 Peter 4:2), and even now preach
"even to those who are dead..." so that
"...they might live in the Spirit, the way God does." While believers are spiritually reborn in Christ, unbelievers are spiritually dead in their sins. But through our preaching ~ to the spirits in prison in the present day ~ the Holy Spirit may work in them and bring them, spiritually speaking, from death to life... in this life. We call this evangelism. :) This is along the same lines as what Paul says in Romans 10:14-17...
"How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, 'How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!' But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Isaiah says, 'Lord, who has believed what he has heard from us?' So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ."
Grace and peace to you, Matthew.