So here is an example of where things go seriously wrong with your understanding.
even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ Eph 2:4–5.
What is made Alive in us?
As Paul states the wages of sin is death Romans 6:23 (physical mortal death!)
In fact if you look at the context in Ephesians 2 Paul has already told you...."among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind Eph 2:3.
What in us was once alienated from God?
How would you know that Jesus walked the earth , by reading your Bible?
Anyone can read a Bible my friend in their own human intellect?
Now to bring that Bible to life, what do we need in order for us to understand it?
Who brings us to know that Jesus truly existed?
Who leads you through scripture my friend to understand the written word in the spirit, it’s a spiritual book is it not?
So what is your problem Rita?
Well, you believe in the immortal soul - a divine essence which you believe you were born with however this is false teaching! You die physically and completely for two reason.
we were born alienated from God, what in us was alienated from God?
1. You inherited a condemned mortal nature - 1 Corith 15:22
I inherited the sin of the first Adam, I have become reconciled/ right before God by the second Adam?
How could that be?
2. You sin and the divine decree is death - Romans 6:23
A Born Again doesn’t sin because they have been Born Of God’s seed.
What seed is that and where does that seed liveth and abideth forever?
You also have another issue which is even greater than both of these...you don't read the Bible in context - you project your false understanding on the Word of God,
Then please prove it by using scripture.
maybe because you have itching ears, or possibly you have a copy and paste faith?
What is a copy and paste Faith?
There is some fantastic commentaries out there, as long as they line up with Gods written word..which the above that I posted does.
Maybe you have not been taught how to read the Bible with more care? Either way, when Paul states you were dead! It means without Christ and the One True Hope you are completely and utterly dead (think worms!) as is all mankind without their savior.
Where were we dead , before we became Born Of The Spirit?
We are Born Again in our spirit, my friend, not by reading the Bible, ..?
Do you also think that the written word is Gods Living witness His Holy Spirit?
Who backs up,Gods written word my friend and what do we need to be before we can have any chance of understanding Gods written word?
Why did Jesus have to die on that cross?
Who testifies with our spirit that we are Gods children?
What does that mean even?