CadyandZoe
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Someone once told me, not all facts are the same. The fact that Paris is the capital of France doesn't carry the same significance to me personally as the fact that I am a sinner in need of God's grace. Some facts are weightier than other facts and especially facts that challenge my self-image or are important information regarding my existence.Well, I think you know that was a very mature Christian statement! I would, of course, wholeheartedly agree. When someone begins to cast another in a negative light it becomes impossible for him or her to read any positives out of what they say.
However, if this was just a rational matter, it could be rationally resolved. It would have a rational solution. But people are sinful, and have to overcome their sin when they want to be rational in matters that attack their pride. When we misunderstand someone and feel offended, our first reaction is to defend our pride, to fight back.
Many Christians come to grips with this, and either repent immediately, or resolve this over time. But some simply won't--they hang onto their pride.
Paul warned us in 2 Corinthians 11 about divisive people who simply were incorrigible. You have to let them go.
In fact, Paul ran into this time and again. He began 1 Corinthians dealing with the same problem. So there just isn't a rational solution for people who are both sinful and refuse to let go of their pride. Sometimes we have to let go of them.
If I were a Pharisee, calling me a sinner would be fighting words. :)
Speaking for me personally, I am always cognizant of Paul's warning to the "teachers of the Law" who maintained an incorrect and dangerous mistaken self-image. In the course of teaching the Bible, teachers face a dangerous occupational hazard: presuming that God favors those who study and teach the Bible. Rather than "justification by faith", one tacitly affirms "justification by teaching the Bible." The following statement should be written over the door of everyone who teaches the Bible.
" You, therefore, who teach another, do you not teach yourself?"