How about this:
2 Peter 3:3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts, 4 And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation.......10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. 11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness.
I'm mainly asking you about what it says in verses 10-13, but I included verses 3 and 4 for context.
Do you accept this scripture for what it says?
Sure I accept what this scripture says.
What Peter was saying here is that in the last days there would be scoffers doing their own thing rather than what God wants and they mockingly ask "Where is the promise of his coming?" in relation to the second coming of Christ. So, Peter established early on that he was talking about things relating directly to the second coming of Christ.
That's part of it.
Then later he talked about global fiery destruction coming unexpectedly on the day of the Lord.
Exactly
After describing the destruction that will accompany the day of the Lord in verses 10-12, Peter said "Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. We know from looking at verse 4 that "his promise" in verse 13 is a reference to the promise of His second coming.
2 Peter 3
12
Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat?
13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness.
You say it is the second coming that we are looking for. That's part of it. The word says
Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat
The promise is contained in the Day of the Lord, not just the second coming. I'll explain below.
Peter indicated that we look forward to the new heavens and new earth in fulfillment of the promise of His second coming. That implies that the new heavens and new earth will be ushered in at His second coming. So, do you take that verse for what it says? I don't think so.
Ok. Let's read what it says. Peter does not indicate that we look forward to the new heavens and new earth in fulfillment of the promise of His second coming. He says we are
Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat.
Let's get to the meat of this. There is a difference between the second coming and the day of the Lord. You skipped the details that told what you needed to know. Here.
2 Peter 3
7
But the heavens and the earth, which are now, by the same word are kept in store,
reserved unto fire against the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men.
8 But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.
9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
There. Read what it says.
Be not ignorant of this one thing. That one day is with Lord as a 1000 years and a thousand years as one day. So the day of the Lord is 1000 years long. Oh no, you're not going to want to believe that, are you? Lets prove it. The problem is not me proving it. I can do that easy enough. The problem is getting you to accept the written Word of God.
Revelation 20
4 And I saw thrones, and they sat upon them, and judgment was given unto them: and I saw the souls of them that were beheaded for the witness of Jesus, and for the word of God, and which had not worshipped the beast, neither his image, neither had received his mark upon their foreheads, or in their hands;
and they lived and reigned with Christ a thousand years.
5
But the rest of the dead lived not again until the thousand years were finished. This is the first resurrection.
The following verses show that the
Rev 20
7
And when the thousand years are expired, Satan shall be loosed out of his prison,
8 And shall go out to deceive the nations which are in the four quarters of the earth, Gog, and Magog, to gather them together to battle: the number of whom is as the sand of the sea.
9 And they went up on the breadth of the earth, and compassed the camp of the saints about, and the beloved city: and fire came down from God out of heaven, and devoured them.
10
And the devil that deceived them was cast into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are, and shall be tormented day and night for ever and ever.
11
And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them.
12 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.
13 And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.
14 And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
So we see a thousand year period AFTER the second coming. THEN we see the new heavens and the new earth which is AFTER the 1000 years.
Rev 21
And I saw a new heaven and a new earth: for the first heaven and the first earth were passed away; and there was no more sea.
2 And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
So Peter telling you that a day is as a thousand year and a thousand years as a day when the heavens and earth are burnt up is confirmed by the Revelation of John.