The real problem is that you are ignoring what Jesus said. "They will be tormented day and night FOREVER and EVER"!
ISAIAH 34:10 says a similar thing.
Isaiah 34:10
It shall not be quenched night nor day; the smoke thereof shall go up for ever: from generation to generation it shall lie waste; none shall pass through it for ever and ever.
Isaiah 34:9 NLT says,
”The streams of Edom will be filled with burning pitch, and the ground will be covered with fire.”
So the fire will not be quenched in the city of Edom according to Isaiah 34:10.
Do you believe that?
It says in verse 10 that the fire will not be quenched NIGHT NOR DAY and the SMOKE SHALL GO UP FOREVER.
Sounds similar to Revelation.
But Jesus said Heaven and Earth shall pass away In Matthew 24:35.
Revelation 21:1 says that the Earth passed away.
So again…. How can the city of Edom have it’s smoke go up FOREVER?
How can the burning fire not be quenced if that is the case?
You cannot answer because you don’t know. But it sets up a contradiction.
I take this to mean that the city of Edom will not be burning for all eternity because the Earth will pass away.
So it’s a metphorical language for destruction of this city. A man can say that he will be with his wife forever, but that is only in context to as long as they each shall live on this Earth. But yet, it’s not a contradiction for this man to say that.