I understand. And I know a few other men who feel the same. I know it's an extremely hard thing to consider and there can be so many caveats, but Biblically, it's still murder. I believe God should be the one who decides.
I was the victim of forced late term abortion as a girl (age 10 and up) and it was devastating. It was a man who impregnated me, and men who forced the abortion/s on me and performed them. I wanted my baby/babies and fought so hard not to push my baby into this world for them to kill. (They gave me something orally to cause contractions, then took my baby/babies with forceps.)
Then when I was about 18, I tried to rescue my younger cousin (age 15) when she was pregnant and being told she was getting an abortion. That rescue failed ...but she desperately wanted her baby as well.
Those incidents don't fit with what you asked, but it just gives some added insight to the subject of abortion.
I guess what brought that to mind to share was that as a mother, it's my place to fight for the life of my baby ...not to take it.