It baffles me that I used to buy into the myth of jumping through hoops just to be considered attractive to a man.
The beauty industry profits if they can convince us that we need their products for this.
Agree. It grieves me to see the standard that society sets to judge women by. Or more to the point, the work and expense of women attempting to meet that standard. And the well-meaning gals that that over-do it in an attempt to meet the standard.
I heard a gal telling another gal at work, "I'll show you how to put on lashes." I spoke to the gal she was talking to and said, "Do me a HUGE favor by NOT doing that." I said it quietly, and sincerely. Fortunately, she took my advice. I had earned the right to be heard by treating her kindly. I knew she was someone most men would avoid. I could see how the attention and encouragement brightened her day.
The truth? Being a woman is naturally attractive---just don't ruin it. You don't need Cosmopolitan to tell you 78 ways to seduce a man. There's really just one: be female.
Agree. And the seduction thing is so far over the top. Men are naturally horny. You don't $600 lingerie to turn him on. Ask him what he likes, that will turn him on.
If any woman is wondering if they are attractive or not, they can borrow this 1000 point system I came up with.
Brilliant! (and funny) Thanks!
Oh and I almost forgot... if you are younger than 60, add a bonus 200 points. But if your over 60, single, and willing to date older men, add that 200 anyway.
Even young women are interested in older men now. Young men are too immature for them. And in a lot of cases they were raised without a father. They still long for a strong father-figure in their lives, Such a sad situation. Good news for older guys though, I suppose.
Will you attract a royal prince? I don't know. But as long as you are a woman, someone is wanting you. I stand by that. Makeup, products, surgery, etc are simply not necessary.
Agree again. Plenty of unattractive women that are married. How did that happen? I will tell you right now...
Men are actually afraid of super attractive women. Imagine these women doing it right, only to put themselves "out of reach". There are videos on how a man can get up the nerve to go after them. And some succeed.
I can't believe how insecure I was in the past. But it was probably for the best.
Yes, there is freedom in throwing of the shackles of societal expectations!
Christian men and women need to ask themselves, "As an ambassador for Christ, how should I look and act?"
When I was over in England I took note of these postal marks.
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