We should be start here:
"He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world."
"In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit,"
"Heard" and "believed" are humans actions. God did not hear and believe for us.
"But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God."
How can we receive him if we have no other option? His gift is not a gift if you can't refuse it. Your theology makes salvation spiritual rape.
And I agree 100% with those verses!
Yes we have to hear teh words of truth in order for faith to be given to us .
Yes we must place our trust in christ in order to be saved.
But once again, we cannot do that of ourselves!
Romans 8:5-8
King James Version
5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
The unsaved only have the flesh!
Romans 7:18
King James Version
18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
The flesh has nothing good in it!
1 Corinthians 2:14
King James Version
14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
We do not even receive the things of God as unsaved!
So knowing these biblical truths, how does a natural person choose Jesus????