River Jordan said:
I guess when you can't argue the facts, you switch to attacking the person.
Dear girl, we have been arguing the facts.
The fact is that gay sex is against God's law. That is a fact.
It is a fact that Jesus told us that if we love Him we will obey Him. That is a fact.
It is a fact that those who are dedicated to Christ will uphold His law. That is a fact.
Therefore we will not accept homosexuality as "normal" or "natural".
It is a fact that Jesus tells us that we are to repent of our sins...that is to turn from them.
Mat 4:17 From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say,
Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
You should know all of these things.
But you defend and uphold homosexuality regardless of what you know that God has said about it. That is shocking to me.
Of course I am going to wonder what your motive might be.
And I did not say that you were definitely a lesbian. I only said that it had crossed my mind to wonder.
Now, you take that as a personal attack?
Therefore you think it's ok to do it yourself.
And again, I did not say that you are definitely not a Christian.
What I said was, given your attitude against God's clearly stated law, both in the Old and New Testament, I wonder about your faith. Perhaps you aren't sure just what a Christian is? There are folks who think that, because they to church once or twice a week, and have said a few magic words and gotten wet, they are now Christians.
There is a little more to it than that.
So youth are leaving the faith in droves, and one of the main reasons they cite for doing so is our hateful attitudes towards gays and our hypocrisy on the issue. Confronted with this fact, your response is...."Meh". Makes one wonder why bother to share the Gospel in the first place.
One of the things that I have been saying from the very beginning is that it is more hateful to lead them to believe that they can go so far as to actually enter in to the sacred bond of matrimony, knowing full well that their final destination unless they repent and turn away from their sin is going to be hell. Condemning a sinner....ANY sinner....to an eternity hell because it is not politically correct to tell them the truth, is, imho, true hatred.
Any kid who does accept the gospel message is sooner or later going to have to face the fact that gay is not okay. You want us to sugar coat this truth in order to condemn even more people to an eternity in hell.
And I am saying that Jesus...not you, not me, and definitely not our government, but Jesus alone is the Way and the Truth and the Life. No man....NO MAN, River, and no woman, either....ever comes to the Father except through the Son. If those kids do not know that now, they will learn it later, and later is going to be a lot sadder.
So confronted with hateful rhetoric from Christian leaders, your response is "It's the fault of those who expose it". Sad.
Again, you twist what I have said.
I actually said that I'd be a lot more impressed if that site collected hate from both sides of the issue.
Riiiiiiiiiiiight.......it's not you--the one who questions my faith, implies that I'm a lesbian, and says I'm anti-Christian--who has turned like a snake, it's me. Ridiculous.
As I recall, when you first met me you were quite impressed with my dedication to my faith. You had some glowing praise for me back in those days. You actually made this old lady blush.
However, the first time we find ourselves on opposite sides of an issue, I am a "hateful jerk". I am "naive". When I tell you how I dealt with someone whom I loved who was gay, your first charge was that I only condemned it in strangers, not in those I love.
Upon being told that I told him the same truth I have told you and others, you came back to me with a description of how you think "we" ought to deal with my sin, which I freely confessed to you in an open forum. You were quite nasty about it, as I recall. However, I did not react to your barbs, but merely told you that I was already dealing with it.
And then you wanted to know how much weight I had lost. By this time i was beginning to lose my temper with you, but I did answer your impertinent question. You never asked me how much I needed to lose, but your response was less than encouraging.
In short, you have not shown me much love in this thread.
So we can be as bizarre, hateful, and nasty as we like in sharing the Gospel, and it will have no effect on how receptive people are to it. Again, your naivety is astounding.
Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.
River, do you believe this? I do.
This is what I struggle with, so I'm just going to say it....are you really so dim that you cannot understand that saying homosexuality is no different than other sins, is not the same thing as saying homosexuality isn't a sin at all? I've been wondering that about you for several days now, and sadly I'm thinking that maybe this really is just the best you're capable of.

I'd be more impressed with that if you weren't insisting that Christians ought to encourage them in their sin, or aid them in committing it.
I've noticed that you do not do this with other sins. You evidently don't care too much about other sins.
When I told you that I would not buy overpriced junk from a televangelist, or contribute to his wealth, you did not have a problem with that.
When I told you how I had stood up and walked out on a pastor for this reason, you did not call me a hateful jerk.
When Marcus pointedly asked me how I would deal with other sins....as an undertaker, how would I handle a client who wanted me to help him bury the body of the person he'd murdered, as a pawn shop owner, would I help a client fence stolen property, as a babysitter how would I handle the horny Dad who wanted me to help him commit adultery....you had no comment.
When I said that I would not sell someone a gun to commit murder, you just shrugged your shoulders.
But let me say that I would not sell cupcakes for a gay pride parade....and oh, boy!
You seem obsessed with this one sin. Why?
I looked at the CDC data that shows the vast, vast, vast majority of MRSA infections occur in hospitals and are not associated in any way with gay sex. As far as your story, my dad knows a heterosexual who died of syphilis. So just based on both the MRSA data and my dad's story, you should be much, much more terrified of heterosexuals.
Yeah.
Okay, for those who are interested, check out these sites:
https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&channel=iphone_bm&site=&source=hp&q=gay+sex+and+MRSA&oq=gay+sex+and+MRSA&gs_l=hp.12...2068.6173.0.8752.17.13.0.0.0.0.979.1944.6-2.2.0....0...1c.1.64.hp..17.0.0.0.UkCn_U9GB9g
And i did tell you about my friend, whose gay cousin brought the infection home with him. She is dead now....and so is her mother and her brother. And the cousin.
You never even commented.
My friend's name was Irene. Everyone called her "Renee". She loved animals and spooky movies, and she laughed a lot. She loved to sing kareoke, and the girl was good. She was sweet and funny and smart, and we were best buds. She is dead now. It took her a long time to die, and her suffering was horrible.
I miss her terribly.
Where is your compassion?
Depends. I know newly married heterosexual couples where the husband is impotent. Does that mean they shouldn't have a wedding cake, since wedding cakes are all about the type of sex you have? :wacko:
Your newly married heterosexual couple is an exception.
And I think you know it.
Marriage is about a lot more than sex, of course....but for most people sex is a factor.
And gay sex is forbidden.
So there's no real reason to ask if the cake is for a same-sex wedding.
So, don't ask. What others do is none of your business, is it?
You would not like the retort to that one....so I will just keep it to myself.
BTW, here are some synonyms to the term "naive":
innocent,
unsophisticated,
artless,
ingenuous,
inexperienced,
guileless,
unworldly,
trusting;
credulous,
immature,
gullible,
immature,
callow,
raw,
green,
wide-eyed...
I will freely admit to most of these, and thank you, River.
And who decides whether a law is unconstitutional?
Cute.
No, I'm afraid that will not work, my girl. The amendment doesn't need to be interpreted or explained.
That amendment is the biggest reason why I do not think SCOTUS was acting within the law when they handed down their controversial decision.