Your belief is based on speculation rather than on scripture. There is no scripture which says we will be taken to heaven when He returns. What is the point of meeting Him in the air if we will then be taken to heaven? Why not just be taken directly to heaven to meet Him there if that's where we were going to end up (we're not)?
Paul says we will forever be with the Lord. If Paul had said forever with Christ the King, you would have a point.
Do you think that God Himself is also coming to earth, or just Jesus?
Remember that at the 6th Seal, all on earth can see the GWT, and God sitting on it. Whose face is said is unable to be looked upon and live. The firmament will be gone at that point, yet people can see the face of the one sitting on the throne. Jesus is on the earth at that point. All the angels are on the earth at that point.
"And the kings of the earth, and the great men, and the rich men, and the chief captains, and the mighty men, and every bondman, and every free man, hid themselves in the dens and in the rocks of the mountains; And said to the mountains and rocks, Fall on us, and hide us from the face of him that sitteth on the throne, and from the wrath of the Lamb: For the great day of his wrath is come; and who shall be able to stand?"
As you can see every single soul on earth, no one is left out, can see God on the throne, and the Lamb now on the mount of Olives per Zechariah 14. This is not Armageddon where they are in full battle array waiting to fight heaven's armies. This is the thief in the night moment where all are taken by surprise. The earth is destroyed and everything burned up, because they are hiding in caves, and under all the rubble. The church was raptured and forever with the Lord in Paradise. They remain in Paradise while Satan is bound, even though you deny that point. They then descend in the New Jerusalem. The New Jerusalem is the New Paradise.
You are the one impatient and claim the New Jerusalem descends even before the 7th Seal is opened, and any of the Trumpets have sounded. You have to totally avoid these verses:
"And when he had opened the seventh seal, there was silence in heaven about the space of half an hour. And I saw the seven angels which stood before God; and to them were given seven trumpets."
God on the GWT is still present in heaven and in view of the earth, because those on earth can see God, and God can still be seen in heaven. Isaiah 66:1 Acts 7:48-49
"Thus saith the Lord, The heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool: where is the house that ye build unto me? and where is the place of my rest?"
"Howbeit the most High dwelleth not in temples made with hands; as saith the prophet, Heaven is my throne, and earth is my footstool: what house will ye build me? saith the Lord: or what is the place of my rest?"
From these verses we see, the throne is based on the earth, the pedestal, and in heaven, thus the GWT. So who is the Lord, exactly and why is the GWT still in the 6th Seal, prior to even heaven and earth passing away. There is no GWT in the NHNE.
"And I saw no temple therein: for the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb are the temple of it."
Since God is now in the New Jerusalem itself, there is no throne. The GWT filled heaven and earth. Now God comes in the New Jerusalem which descends from heaven to earth. A totally different arrangement. The NHNE do not happen at the 6th Seal. 2 Peter 3 is Revelation 6, and the 6th Seal. Time still goes on, on the earth through the Trumpets and Thunders. Then there is the Day of the Lord itself. They are still waiting for the NHNE throughout the Day of the Lord.
So while Jesus is God, and Lord, the Lord is still God, the Son, and the Holy Spirit as one. The Lord was in heaven in the first century, while Jesus was on earth, no?
The Lord is not on earth until the New Jerusalem comes down, when the GWT is no longer necessary. That was the point made when David wanted to build a building for God on earth. The Lord on the GWT would not "fit" in any human structure. Yet we see God in His New Jerusalem bringing His own structure to earth. And the church is in that structure with the Lord. So at the 6th Seal the church is forever with the Lord, until they both, the Lord and the church descend in the New Jerusalem.
"And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband."
Does that not symbolize the Lord, bringing the church to meet Jesus Christ as King on the earth? It does not say Jesus is in the New Jerusalem at that point. Jesus is on the earth waiting for the bride to descend. A bride adorned for the husband is the walk down the isle. The husband is not walking down the isle. The husband has been waiting. The husband is not the Lord, God, or the Holy Spirit. The husband is Jesus Christ the King.
While this is all wedding imagery, there is still a literal Lord, literal Jesus, literal earth, and literal New Jerusalem. Yet you deny Jesus has been on the earth since the 6th Seal, up and until the NHNE. Jesus is on the earth for the entire Day of the Lord. Jesus is on the earth until creation is handed back after the Day of the Lord. Jesus is still on the NE waiting for the New Jerusalem to descend from the NH. If you are going to go with the wedding imagery, why not all the way, instead of cherry picking what you like and avoiding the parts that contradict your eschatology?