Strength and Honor: Triumphing over Feminism

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Because overcoming and triumphing over feminism is the topic of this thread. LOL
Here are a few of my wins from following Scripture over feminism.

-Fulfilling marriage despite my mental health crisis' and emotional affair

- I can cook like nobody's business

- weight loss

-time to maintain healthy hair, skin, and nails

- Orderly. clean home

- Two adorable children I dont need to send to daycare

- no abortion trauma or guilt

- finances and bills handled by husband

- no need to pay for a maid, nanny, chef, or hooker

- being like a flag and a crown for my household

- a sense of gratitude every day

- peace of mind

- not wasting a bunch of money on things that dont matter

-ministry and hospitality from home

- time for creative hobbies and blogging
 
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Here are a few of my wins from following Scripture over feminism.

-Fulfilling marriage despite my mental health crisis' and emotional affair

- I can cook like nobody's business

- weight loss

-time to maintain healthy hair, skin, and nails

- Orderly. clean home

- Two adorable children I dont need to send to daycare

- no abortion trauma or guilt

- finances and bills handled by husband

- no need to pay for a maid, nanny, chef, or hooker

- being like a flag and a crown for my household

- a sense of gratitude every day

- peace of mind

- not wasting a bunch of money on things that dont matter

-ministry and hospitality from home

- time for creative hobbies and blogging

There are those who don’t have traditional marriages who have all those things as well.

As I have said and will keep saying, there is no cookie cutter version of marriage and what works for you, may not work for another.
 

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There are those who don’t have traditional marriages who have all those things as well
Feel free to point them out.

I haven't seen many examples in my lifetime.

Christians are supposed to believe Scripture, not the trends of this world. If we want to be like the world, we are free to do so, but there are consequences.
 

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As I have said and will keep saying, there is no cookie cutter version of marriage and what works for you, may not work for another.
This does nothing to discredit my statements. You can agree to disagree all you want to. But Im standing on what Ive said because it's in the Bible we Christians say we follow.
 
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Feel free to point them out.

I haven't seen many examples in my lifetime.

Christians are supposed to believe Scripture, not the trends of this world. If we want to be like the world, we are free to do so, but there are consequences.

They are personal people that I have seen such as friends and family. There is no way for me to point them out to where you can see them.

Having a marriage not based on scripture that works is not a trend of the world. It is doing what is best for a marriage as no two are alike.
 

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This does nothing to discredit my statements. You can agree to disagree all you want to. But Im standing on what Ive said because it's in the Bible we Christians say we follow.

And I am standing on what I have said.

I guess when we get to heaven, we shall see.
 

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Having a marriage not based on scripture that works is not a trend of the world. It is doing what is best for a marriage as no two are alike.
Wrong.

God is the author of marriage. If you don't do it His way, you are doing it the world's way. Every decision bears its fruit over time. I don't think you are as confident about ths fruit of your style of marriage as I am.

Because I am literally a stranger and my words still seem to bother you and make you defensive.

Don't heed me. Heed the Word of God in Ephesians 5 and Titus 2:3-5.
 
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Wrong.

God is the author of marriage. If you don't do it His way, you are doing it the world's way. Every decision bears its fruit over time. I don't think you are as confident about ths fruit of your style of marriage as I am.

Because I am literally a stranger and my words still seem to bother you and make you defensive.

Don't heed me. Heed the Word of God in Ephesians 5 and Titus 2:3-5.

You assume much. I am not bothered at all by what you say and I am extremely confident in my style of marriage.

I wonder if maybe the image you’re seeing is your own in the mirror that you’re looking at.
 

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Not sure why we have to wait that long. Its a simple idea: feminism and egalitarian ideas are inferior to Scripture's wisdom.

If you say so.

I have seen the fruits both and I have seen both fail and both work. As I have said, I am not a leader. Not in the least. So, a traditional marriage would not work for me or my future spouse.

I am a patient person and can wait till I get to heaven to find out.
 
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Here are a few of my wins from following Scripture over feminism.

-Fulfilling marriage despite my mental health crisis' and emotional affair

- I can cook like nobody's business

- weight loss

-time to maintain healthy hair, skin, and nails

- Orderly. clean home

- Two adorable children I dont need to send to daycare

- no abortion trauma or guilt

- finances and bills handled by husband

- no need to pay for a maid, nanny, chef, or hooker

- being like a flag and a crown for my household

- a sense of gratitude every day

- peace of mind

- not wasting a bunch of money on things that dont matter

-ministry and hospitality from home

- time for creative hobbies and blogging
What scripture(s) support what you're saying?
 

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Because I am literally a stranger and my words still seem to bother you and make you defensive.

I am not defensive in the least.

I want other Christians, who may be like me, to know that there are others like them and that there is no cookie cutter marriage.
 

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Again, who has this?

If you asked that before, I didn’t see the question.

That is essentially what you seem to be pushing. Everyone should do marriage the way you say it should be done and that is what I call a cookie cutter marriage, every marriage is the same.

If that is not what you’re saying, l apologize.
 
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45 Years of Data Proving That Husbands Aren't The Abusers

"Feminist propaganda has always pushed the idea that patriarchy is inherently dangerous for women and children. If you question the merits of the women’s lib movement, you are sure to be met with cries of “why don’t you want to protect women and, by extension, children?!” Propagandists use platitudes about children’s welfare as a way to tug on the heart strings of the public consciousness. Whether it's for the purpose of garnering support for a war, a new law, or to raise money, children are used as propaganda pieces. Feminist activists have been very sneaky about baking children’s welfare into the women’s lib cake, but 100 years later the data seems to suggest that children have not been protected by feminism. In fact, they have clearly been harmed by it. This seems like a rational and predictable consequence to me. It makes perfect sense that fathers are naturally the people with the most interest in the welfare of their own offspring. Historically and biologically, the main driver of finding a wife or accumulating resources would be for the production and preservation of a man’s offspring. A man’s main biological imperative is to see his genetic lineage prevail long into the future after he is gone. Yet, the social engineers and revolutionaries who pushed women’s liberation into the culture convinced the public that the family patriarch is the main threat to the welfare of his own wife and children. "
 

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"Feminist propaganda has always pushed the idea that patriarchy is inherently dangerous for women and children.
Watched a vid where a feminist refused to answer a question. I know. No surprise there.

The question was who abuses children and the elderly the most? Feminists don’t want facts to get in the way of their narrative.
 
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