Strength and Honor: Triumphing over Feminism

[Wrangler]

Many vids show feminists are so brainwashed, they think men find attractive her being an argumentative, b*tch all the time; they've been convinced that being agreeable makes the woman a sucker. No! It makes them successful in relationships.

No, in a lot of cases it makes her a sucker. EASILY taken advantage of.

You mean you are an argumentative b*tch on principle? What kind of principle is that?? You are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of bad relationships. You are so lost @Mink57. I'll pray for you.

 

[Wrangler]

I have mentioned before that I WAS a SAHM. My late ex-husband didn't appreciate what I did in the home. My "job" wasn't as important as HIS 'job'. He'd work for 8 hours, come home, crack open a beer...the first of MANY to follow...expect a tasty meal, for me to keep the kids AWAY from him, so he could 'relax'...

Is THAT the ''traditional" role of a wife?

Except for the snarky attitude, yes.

You do not have a servant's heart. Your heart is resentful and bitter. God needs to give you a heart transplant to humility and gratitude. Your husband gave you children? I often say I've done more for my wife than anyone on Earth - other than her 1st husband, who gave her 3 children. (Both of us are now "fixed" besides being too old).

 

[Mink57]

I never said unfair situations are God's direct will. There are some situations we should try to avoid or seek justice for. There are some situations that require a lot of trust in God, like forgiving those who really hurt you. In order to do that, it's good to know that God can deal out justice a lot better than we can. Our role is to forgive.

Been there. Done that. And I absolutely AGREE. My mom taught me that forgiveness means (paraphrasing mom, RIP) that you don't try to get even with someone who hurt you. Let go and let God, and if God decides to deal a swift blow of justice NOW or at a later time, (in this life or the next) so be it.

Seek peace as far as it "depends on you" I think the verse state. There are some situations where peace is impossible. You can't control the actions of other people and God doesn't expect us to be the Holy Spirit in our husband's lives.

I don't think talking about and relating what's happened to me in the past is "not making peace with it."

 

[Mink57]

No! That is the feminist man-hating question. It's time to put on your big girl pants and woman up! Why do YOU keep choosing bad men?

I don't keep choosing bad men! I haven't been with a man, or even been on a date in over 10 years. Yet 'bad' men keep approaching me.

 

[Mink57]

You did the world a great favor. Now, if you can only stop complaining and take responsibility for your role in making the world a better place.

Typical anti-feminist rhetoric. Shut her up. Don't let her complain about the MEN who make this world a BAD place. *eyeroll*

 

[Mink57]

That's not the way or the Spirit.

Oh, yes it is.

 

[Mink57]

You cannot give credit where credit is due where men are concerned. Women give birth but Men give life (i.e.., create a family).

Life can't possibly be created without BOTH men and women. Sperm is useless without an egg, and an egg is worthless without sperm. It takes BOTH for life to happen.

Oh, and here's an interesting tidbit. When Eve gave birth to Cain, what did she say? "I have produced a man with the help of the LORD." NOTHING about 'help' from Adam, her husband. Did she not appreciate that Adam had a role in producing life...?

Or did they simply not know that life was created by the sperm meeting the egg by the Will of the Lord?

 

[Mink57]

You mean you are an argumentative b*tch on principle? What kind of principle is that?? You are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of bad relationships. You are so lost @Mink57. I'll pray for you.

What's wrong, Wrangler? Can't stand it if a woman challenges you regarding your own beliefs? Once again, your EGO can't handle the idea that maybe you MIGHT be wrong.

 

[Mink57]

You mean you are an argumentative b*tch on principle? What kind of principle is that?? You are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of bad relationships. You are so lost @Mink57. I'll pray for you.

Wrangler said:
Many vids show feminists are so brainwashed, they think men find attractive her being an argumentative, b*tch all the time; they've been convinced that being agreeable makes the woman a sucker. No! It makes them successful in relationships.

Bull puckey! Being agreeable ALL THE TIME makes her a SUCKER in relationships. By experience, I asked my ex husband why he doesn't help when he sees that I OBVIOUSLY need some help. His response..."WHEN SOMEONE DOES EVERYTHING FOR YOU, YOU KIND OF GET USED TO IT." What a profound statement that was. He recognized and conceded that I was doing "everything" in the relationship. That relationship was "successful" from HIS point of view, as all he did was work. I worked too, AND I made more than HE did. Yet, when I came home, I ALSO cooked, cleaned, took care of bills, etc.

And you're probably going to say something ridiculous like, "You chose the wrong partner, Mink." As if I could know ahead of time, what he was REALLY like.

And here's a funny thing. You fault women being in the workplace and accuse them of "wanting to have it all". Meanwhile the SAHM, is BURNED OUT from trying to "do it all" in the home. Keeping a home and especially dealing with small children isn't easy.

I recall a woman who tried to prove to her husband that it's not easy. She told him that for every task HE did, SHE would do an equal task. If HE washed a dish, SHE would wash a dish. If HE made a phone call, SHE would make a phone call. Took him less than a week to admit that she doesn't have it 'easy'.

 

[Wrangler]

I don't keep choosing bad men! I haven't been with a man, or even been on a date in over 10 years. Yet 'bad' men keep approaching me.

Skirting the issue. Two things are true:

1. You keep choosing bad men.​

2. Bad men approach you.​

Why do bad men approach you? There is a theory of life that we were put here on Earth to learn something. Learning often involves repetition. What is it about the energy you give off that attracts bad men and how do you react?

Imagine if God kept sending me abused animals. Mangy, smelly, feeble, starving and in great need of care. Yet, I keep cursing God's gift. Yes, gift. The chance to use the God-given time, talent and treasure to give him glory. What was it that Jesus said? Whatever you do to the least, you do to me? Said differently, there is a great mantra that HURT PEOPLE, HURT PEOPLE.

All you do is embrace victim mentality. Woah is you! I am going to prison tomorrow to approach bad men. (It is church outreach program). You won't see me posting about what a victim I am to be in their presence. It is Providence. And I obey.

You are in denial of choosing men and the responsibility that goes along with that. That is the root cause problem for you and feminists in general.

 

[Wrangler]

Typical anti-feminist rhetoric. Shut her up. Don't let her complain about the MEN who make this world a BAD place. *eyeroll*

It is foolish to suppose embracing an evil ideology gives you license to spread evil. Even here God provides:

Psalm 139:10, ESV
even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.

Ephesians 4:29, The Voice
Don’t let even one rotten word seep out of your mouths. Instead, offer only fresh words that build others up when they need it most. That way your good words will communicate grace to those who hear them.

James 3:6, NIV
The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

Consider how this thread has gone. One woman victoriously posts about triumphing over evil, the evil of feminism. Another woman takes the gauntlet as a crusade to defend the evil, characteristically making it all about you. Now, feeling victimized in being held accountable to what you say. I do NOT want to shut you up. I want you to embrace and share God's Spirit, even here in the battle of the sexes.

 

[Wrangler]

Did she not appreciate that Adam had a role in producing life...?

Correct. As you pointed out, there is a long history of women not appreciating what men do. God did give her a son - through Adam. Adam is the life giver, just as surely as any Angel is a giver of divine messages.

 

[Wrangler]

What's wrong, Wrangler? Can't stand it if a woman challenges you regarding your own beliefs? Once again, your EGO can't handle the idea that maybe you MIGHT be wrong.

Attempting to flip the script and not take accountability for you definitely being wrong in choosing to be argumentative rather than agreeable, on principle. And ignore the evil of that choice.

You mean you are an argumentative b*tch on principle? What kind of principle is that?? You are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of bad relationships. You are so lost @Mink57. I'll pray for you.

I did pray for you. I need to pray for you a lot.

Romans 12:18, If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

 

[Wrangler]

I asked my ex husband why he doesn't help when he sees that I OBVIOUSLY need some help.

I would answer, because you lack the humility to ask for help.

There are plenty of Youtube vids of feminists complaining about this too. Feeling so entitled, that men should help them even though they told men for decades that don't need a man AND even made tic toe vids mocking men who helped women AND never repented by expressing humility to humbly ask for help.

 

[Wrangler]

And you're probably going to say something ridiculous like, "You chose the wrong partner, Mink."

There is nothing ridiculous about the simple truth, Mink.

As I've gotten to know you in these posts, another truth painfully emerges. You are the wrong partner - for any man - with your ego, your lack of humility, your bitterness and resentment, and your embrace of being argumentative on principle. As I said, you choosing not to date is a gift to the world. (Now, if you can only stop complaining about the choices you have made).

A lifetime of attempting to compete with men and "winning" in your estimation has not brought you happiness. Try playing the role of the woman in the relationship as the word of God instructs.

You cannot choose a right partner when you are the wrong partner. "The problem in all your relationships is not the pants that keep changing, when the skirt is the same." Dr. Laura.

 

[Wrangler]

No. I’m worried WHAT, that you are put off. Imagine how put off a guy would be that women keep hitting on him all the time? Big difference between the sexes, right there!

@Mink57, I think you missed this question. How put off would a guy be if women keep hitting on him all the time?

 

[Mink57]

@Mink57, I think you missed this question. How put off would a guy be if women keep hitting on him all the time?

Intriguing question, Wrangler. I've thought about this myself from time to time and decided to do a little research this morning.

It appears that about HALF of the men found it flattering...at least, at first. That's because men don't get hit on too often. So, for them, it's a welcome change. An ego boost (THEIR words, not mine). But after a while, they started to feel uncomfortable, especially when the "compliments" became more vulgar, more often and/or there was unwanted touching involved.

Perhaps the question should be, "How put off would YOU (as a man) be to watch other men catcalling and harassing your MOTHER, your WIFE, your GIRLFRIEND or your SISTER?

Since you seem to be big on vids, I'm posting on for you. If you get the chance or have the stomach for it, scan through some of the 9,000+ comments.

 

[Mink57]

There is nothing ridiculous about the simple truth, Mink.

As I've gotten to know you in these posts, another truth painfully emerges. You are the wrong partner - for any man - with your ego, your lack of humility, your bitterness and resentment, and your embrace of being argumentative on principle. As I said, you choosing not to date is a gift to the world. (Now, if you can only stop complaining about the choices you have made).

A lifetime of attempting to compete with men and "winning" in your estimation has not brought you happiness. Try playing the role of the woman in the relationship as the word of God instructs.

You cannot choose a right partner when you are the wrong partner. "The problem in all your relationships is not the pants that keep changing, when the skirt is the same." Dr. Laura.

Again, your opinion.

 

[Wrangler]

Equality bites reality. LOL

 

[Wynona]