I will say this....
I've always felt bad for my brother-in-law who wanted to be a father, but married a woman who didn't want to be a mother. Idk why he married her, but hey ... they've been married for 34 years. They love each other, but she, after all these years, seems sad-faced. It's not because she has worked good jobs (and so has he) and has everything she wants or needs. They both have more money than they need. My BIL is a very giving and generous man.
She always said that if she got pregnant , she would have an abortion. She didn't want to lose her figure to pregnancies, deal with the stretch marks, etc. But now, in her mid-50's she has lost her figure anyways and seems sad when I see her. Her smile has no spark. Idk if she has had abortions ....maybe? Maybe that's where the sadness comes from(?) ...Idk.
Well, and neither of them know the Lord. That's a huge part of the equation.