Am I the only one here who has NO ISSUE
with whether people say things differently regarding God and Jesus
as long as we agree we should resolve things in union
in the spirit of Christ Jesus to establish agreement on God's truth.
I feel I really have no argument with each person here,
but each person keeps arguing with me or others.
Whatever you are saying I feel is correct from your perspective.
I believe we all respect and seek the truth,
and if our different ways of saying it don't come across right to others
it is because of differences in words and perceptions because human
language and perceptions are limited and not perfect.
I have trouble finding the right words to express what I'm trying to say as well.
And a lot of times it's not heard the way I want it to sound.
So I find I have to keep explaining whatever it is in other ways.
I may use an example or a story, but it still gets misunderstood.
Sometimes it's better to walk away for awhile and come back to it later.
And everybody has their own way with words.
It takes a lot of patience this thing we call communication.
Always trying to understand where others are coming from and yet always feeling misunderstood ourselves.
And it could be that others feel misunderstood and they feel a need to clarify, which just keeps putting wood on the fire LOL
Sometimes it's easier just to agree to disagree until a time communication is better understood.
When I get frustrated, I just go start at the beginning. I repost the OP and try to come at it from another angle.
Not everyone will agree with everyone. And some people are just more direct and unbendable than others.
We are definately limited and not perfect in our speech.
That reminds me when Jesus was talking to the Pharisees.
Jhn 8:43 Why do ye not understand my speech?
even because ye cannot hear my word.
Sometimes people just like to argue for the sake of arguing and aren't willing to listen or consider another's point of view.
When that happens, I just say thankyou for the conversation.. and I walk away and find another sandbox to play in.
There's plenty of those in a forum lol.
Don't get discouraged. The Lord knows what we're trying to say whether other people do or not.
And at some point someone may go.. aha.. now I see what your saying.. or not.
Curtesy comes to mind. Being respectful of others words. And friendly.
My Dad owned a furniture moving company. It was called ACF Transportion.
The legal name was His name and Family.
When a customer would ask what it stood for, we would always say:
ACF = Always Curteous and Friendly.
Some customers though put that name to the test.. a lot.
No matter how accomodating to their circumstance you tried to be, they just wasn't happy.
Made me wonder why they bothered buying furniture in the first place if they had such a hard time making arrangements to get it delivered.
Some topics are like that.
You start a topic hoping that it will be delivered and recieved in the condition you started it.
But there are always bumps in the road.
I can't be home that day, Could you get here sooner/later. That's not a good time.
I wanted it yesterday.
And then when you do agree on a place and time..
It doesn't fit right, it has a scratch in it, you got mud on my carpet.
and some folk so happy to recieve it they even gave you a tip :)
All I can suggest is, no matter how much you feel misunderstood, or you feel people are disagreeing at every turn,
try to remember..
Always Curteous and Friendly.
The only one we really need to impress in the end is the Lord himself.
Some customers just plain rude and obnoxious and others happy and content.
Just be you
:)
Hugs