God hates all sin.
Ohhhhh... yes, he did... There are instances in the Bible where God has treated all kinds of sin with equal harshness. Adam and Eve were cast out of Eden ~ and died that very day, as God told Adam they would in Genesis 2:17, when they partook of the forbidden tree. Not a physical death, of course, but a very real death, and this is now the natural condition of all human beings from that point up to now. Uzzah is another example; he disobeyed God's command that no one touch the ark (2 Samuel 6). And Ananias and Sapphira are another example; they lied to God... And then of course there is Jesus, who died on the cross for all sin; He is the Lamb of God Who takes away the sin of the world. Generally speaking, there is no specification or "ranking" with regard to sin in general and its wages, with is death (Romans 6:23).
Right, well, all sin is an abomination to the Lord. As Solomon says, "The way of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord..." (Proverbs 15:9), and that "way" can take many different forms.
Right, but included in that very verse ~ 1 Corinthians 6:9 ~ is sexual immorality, which includes all sexual sin, some of which would be classified as heterosexual in nature, and idolatry, and adultery. And if we look at 1 Timothy 1:9-10, where homosexuality is also mentioned, there Paul says that "the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine."
So does God hate Sodomites "more than anyone else"? I say that God hates sin and those who practice it (make a practice of it; dwell in it), which doesn't mean that He does not love them, but rather loves them in a very different way, "enduring them with great patience," than He loves those "whom He has mercy and compassion" on (Romans 9). The former "do not see fit to acknowledge God, so God gives them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done; they are filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. They not only do them but give approval to those who practice them" (Romans 1). So, He hates all sin, and for those who remain dead in their sin He punishes equally, in the end ~ this is the second death.
Grace and peace to you.