St. SteVen said:
You are most certainly wrong. IMHO
There are many testimonies of homosexuals in monogamous relationships.
And many testimonies of heterosexuals in multiple relationships.
Sexual immorality is NOT limited to homosexuals. You already knew that.
What is confusing is that you are talking as if there is no way out of that immorality or if there is, it means ending that relationship.
Fidelity is different to the expression of that fidelity - you need to distinguish between violating the act and purifying it.
You may never have been taught how to keep yourself pure, but prescribing which relationships should succeed and which should fail, requires you to take the plank out of your eye first (am I directing you to become homosexual or to question your own integrity, no! There is no plank there?).
I'm not sure if I can untangle what you are saying in your post. But I will try to clarify my position.
And to be clear, you have a right to your own position. We do not have to agree.
I am working to help Christians to understand this complex issue.
This is an important discussion to have. IMHO.
- A monogamous relationship is choosing one mate for life.
- A single lifestyle is NOT choosing one mate for life.
- A promiscuous lifestyle is having having sex with multiple partners.
Which can happen as a matter of being single (fornication)
or as being in a monogamous relationship (adultery).
Any of these three items above can be exercised in
either heterosexual, or homosexual persons.
Your post, and the uninformed attitude of most Christians, is that
LGBTQ automatically means a promiscuous lifestyle. Not true.
In fact many people of faith discover that they are LGBTQ,
or have a family member that makes this discovery.
With their moral values still intact. (I know, I know...)
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