So far everything you said is wrong.
The scriptures say what they say but you can misunderstand them or twist their meaning.
Christians are all saved the same way and the first step is choosing to believe in Christ.
As he wills that all Men should obey him, so he wills that they should all be saved; but because there is an inseparable Connection between Obedience and Salvation, in such a way that one implies the other, so because of free-will all are not going walk the path of Christianity but go on their own way which will lead eternal damnation. In other words it is up us to choose Christ and we can choose to be good and do good the best we can. The power of salvation comes from Christ alone....It is up to us to walk the walk. We are not forced to do anything. We can walk the way to Heaven or we can walk the way to Hell.....again all choice....free-will.
Dear Grailhunter,
If God "wills" anything, it will certainly happen.
Dan 4:35 And all the inhabitants of the earth are reputed as nothing; and he doeth according to his will in the army of the heavens, and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, What doest thou?
When God is ready to save a person, He will send Christ to them and Christ will give them the Holy Spirit. This is the only way a person will confess that Jesus is Lord:
1Cor 12:3 Wherefore I give you to understand, that no man speaking by the Spirit of God calleth Jesus accursed: and that no man can say that Jesus is the Lord, but by the Holy Spirit.
Once they have the Spirit, they can no longer reject Christ. No where in this process does a person's supposed free will come into play. They are saved solely because of the spiritual work of Christ and because it was God's "will" for it to happen.
Your belief in free will is making yourself out to be equal with God (2Thes 2:3-4 applies). God is the only one who has a free will. Everyone else's "will" is controlled by Him.
Eph 1:11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will:
Phil 2:13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.
God works all things to be in accordance with His "will" and not our "will".
Paul's conversion is the pattern for the salvation of the Elect (1Tim 1:16). Christ suddenly came to Paul on the Damascus Road and gave Paul the Holy Spirit of Promise. With that Spirit, Paul fell to his knees and called Jesus "Lord". Paul didn't ask for Christ to come nor did Christ ask Paul for permission to come. Christ came and gave Paul the Spirit solely because it was God's "will" for it to happen.
Salvation comes to mankind no other way.
You beliefs are those taught by another Jesus, another gospel and another spirit (2Cor 11:4). They come from the apostate church. The churches that the Apostles started all began apostate shortly after their passing. Nothing has changed in the church since that time and the wolves are still fully in control. As each new believer enters the church, they are quickly devoured by the wolves.
The apostasy of the church happened because it was God's "will" for it to happen. When a believer "falls away" and becomes apostate, they will experience their "day of evil".
Prov 16:4 The LORD hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil.
So why does God do this:
Ecc 1:13 An experience of evil God has given to the sons of humanity to humble them by it.
It is a very humbling experience when the Man of Sin is revealed and we find that we are that man.
Joe