[email protected]................The Thread is about giving to God a ten percent of what your earn, or make. It sounds like you do give.
I am sort of concerned though about the attitude of the Church doing something for you?? I get word that changes my life, Healing scripture that can heal my body, The word of God has saved me and my family. I am at church to learn how to serve God the rest of the week. I am not there to take anything from the Church. At times the Church spends a few hundred thousand dollars a year and we have what we call Celebration Sunday with rides and all the free food you want. We invite everyone that wants to come, and all free. The church also buys gifts for mothers day for all the ladies or for fathers day (Not for the ladies, but men

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Now, put your family first if you like, but I am sorry. God always comes first in my life.
Jesus is Lord.
OK, brother. Let me be more specific so that you can at least give a modicum of effort to understanding my point of view.
Regarding my statement about the church doing something for me.
It hasn't. I've been unemployed for lengthy periods of time AND THE CHURCH NEVER HELPED A BIT.
My wife had cancer and instead of comfort, members of our church asked her what sin she committed.
(In my mind it was the sin of fellowship with such a bunch of heartless, judgmental, self-righteous, pompous snobs.)
Since when does a battle for one's life, the preservation of one's family and livelihood become a side issue to land development, repavement of the parking lot, a bond issue, and the purchase of an obscenely expensive sculpture for the lobby? Oh and did I mention twelve foot LCD TV screens on each side of the stage and an open-for-business coffee shop DURING THE WORSHIP service?
Whatever happened to holiness, reverence and worship? It went the way of Wal-mart, Starbucks and American Idol.
I never said that I put my family before God. Read my post again.
God and the Church are TWO different things. (Thanks be to God for that.)
I DID SAY that I put my family before the church.
Why? Bottom line folks is that the church is gimme, gimme, gimme all the time.
When a man needs comfort and REAL HELP, the church is there to profoundly and emphatically state that I need to search somewhere else.
I attended seminary for a couple of years.
In the end I left because of my adamant refusal to reject Christ as my Lord and Saviour.
A day came in my life when I sat before the board of ministry and was told that unless I did so I would not be allowed to be ordained.
That was the Episcopal Church, by the way, and I still remember the Dean's question to me, "Why can't you understand that it's just a job?"
Meanwhile the Dean and his buddies were busy covering up a fellow priests' sexual misadventures with mentally handicapped teenagers.
And a bishops adulterous affair with the aforementioned priests' wife.
And of course the unspoken back room agreement that any Bible believing heterosexual young man would be rejected from THE CHURCH.
This is how it plays out - ye who are so holy ..... in order of devotion and duty in my life.
MY GOD
MY FAMILY
MY JOB
MY ENTERTAINMENT
MY CAR
MY DOG
MY TOILET PAPER
my church
I'm not surprised to hear how you believe that the church is more important than God, family, bills, etc. You and your future empty halls will one day ask God why everything went south (along with THE PEOPLE who needed help and never got it).
And you won't have a clue why everything seemed to go wrong.