I’m sorry, but that just made me shake my head.....you refer to a parable and assume that the details are real rather than metaphorical. Parables are not real stories about real people, but illustrative of realities that Jesus’ audience did not always understand. Sometimes he explained them, but sometimes he didn’t. His teachings would explain more as time went on.
The “rich man and Lazarus” is not a story about individuals, but about two completely different groups of people.
The “rich man” represented the Pharisees who had no concern at all for the ones that they considered “lost”......the “beggar” represented the “lost sheep” to whom Jesus was sent, sitting at the gate waiting for a few crumbs that might fall from the rich man’s table.....the “bosom of Abraham” is a position of favour with God since he was the only man in scripture called “Jehovah’s friend”. (James 2:23)
Their “deaths” meant a change in their individual status...it meant that they swapped places. The “lost sheep” who responded to Jesus and accepted him as Messiah, now gained the bosom position, and the the Pharisees officially lost it. By the time of Jesus’ ministry, it had been about 300 years since God had tried to correct his wayward nation by sending them his prophets....Jesus was the last chance that Israel had to come back to God.....but as a nation, they never did...the “beggars” however, began to be fed and they had Jesus and his apostles as their teachers. Only a “remnant” of natural Israel was going to respond, as the scriptures had foretold. (Romans 9:27)
To assume that this parable is a real story is ridiculous. Are heaven and hell within speaking distance to each other? Will a drop of water on someone’s finger cool the tongue of someone in a fire? Really???
The “fire” is God’s wrath. This is so
not a story about “heaven and hell”.....Jewish scripture was devoid of any such notion. The dead are “sleeping” in their graves. (Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10; 1 Thessalonians 4:13; John 11:11)
Wow....do you think you have you begun to educate me?

Since this is what I have always believed, I assume that you have fooled yourself here. It is the Bible that tells me that “spiritual death” is not the same as “physical death”. We will have a different view on what that means however.
And yet Jesus called the teachings of the Pharisees “leaven”....something corrupt. (Matt 16:6)
Whatever the Jews of Jesus day taught and believed, was not what what Jesus promoted. (Matthew 15:7-9)
Don’t take too much notice of them.....Jesus didn’t.
Sorry, the Bible disagrees with you. Paul, being one of the elect, had a heavenly hope (Hebrews 3:1)....that of being resurrected “in the spirit” as Jesus was. That meant shedding his fleshly body and being given a spiritual one. That is not the destiny of all Christians however. The elect are to be rulers and priests in God’s Kingdom, (Revelation 20:6) sharing rulership with their King Christ Jesus. But their subjects will live on earth. (Revelation 21:2-4) I hope to be one of them....
What I believe you willingly overlook in order to keep your beliefs, is that human beings were designed by their Creator to live here on earth forever. In the beginning, there was no natural cause of death....it was the penalty for disobedience, not something inevitable. “The tree of life” was there in the garden to guarantee everlasting life on condition of their continued obedience. Death was never a “natural” thing for humans as we alone go through enormous grieving over the loss of a loved one. Animals normally take death in their stride.
Of all the “souls” that God created, (both animals and humans) only humans were given the hope of a resurrection. That was not a continuation of life....but a restoration of it, here on the earth. This is where the Jews expected the resurrection to take place under the rule of Messiah’s kingdom. Even as he was leaving to return to heaven, his apostles asked if he was going to restore the kingdom to Israel at that time? (Acts 1:6) He told them to wait for the promised Holy Spirit. All was then revealed about their heavenly hope. The apostles all had the heavenly hope as those who would be the very foundations of God’s kingdom. (Revelation 21:14)
There was no passage of scripture that even suggested that this earth was to be a training ground for heaven. If God had wanted humankind in heaven, he would have created us to live there.....he clearly didn’t.
God already had a large spirit family in heaven long before he decided to create material beings in a material environment.
When humans disobeyed their Creator, he responded to their defection by immediately giving the first prophesy in Genesis 3:15.....this was not fully understood until the time came for the savior that Jehovah would send to redeem the children that Adam and his wife were permitted to bring into the world. He allowed the first part of his mandate...to “fill the earth” with their offspring, to go ahead, but the second part (that of ‘subduing’ the earth) would have to wait. It was always God’s intention to restore what was lost.
If we don’t understand what God’s first purpose was, and how he planned to reinstate it after a period of educating his children about the value of obedience, (both in heaven and on earth) we will miss the whole point of it. What God starts, he finishes. (Isaiah 45:11) He never intended for any human to go to heaven at the beginning.....so why do so many expect to go where God never designed us to live?
He has chosen some from among mankind to form the governmental arrangement that will reinstate God’s first purpose for this earth. Why is that so hard to comprehend?