Marymog
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Hi GG,Mary,
What you ask is rather complicated for me.
If I have a problem with a friend, I go directly to them.
If it's not a friend, I just keep away from the person.
If I have to work with them (which has happend and in a church setting) then I'm just as nice as I could be and still keep away.
If the problem includes others, then we should go to the head of our church. Maybe the priest, maybe the pastor, whoever is the head of that particular local church.
That person is in charge of everyone who goes there and should be able to handle any personal problems that come up.
It almost sounds like you don't have a church but I doubt that.
....do you? You certainly cannot go to the Church. As you said, WHO would you go to??!
I'm surprised you've never heard of this before.
Let's say my "problem" with my friend is that we disagree on abortion or gay marriage or woman as pastors or the Real Presence or baptism saves/doesn't save...pick your poison!!
She goes to her church priest/pastor and they tell her 'a baby isn't alive until it comes out of the womb therefor abortion is not murder'.
My priest/pastor tells me 'scripture is very clear, abortion is murder'.
Scriputure says if we refuse to listen to the church then we are to be treated as a Gentile and a tax collector (Matthew 18:17). 1Timothy3 tells us how to behave in the the church of the living God and that the Church is the pillar and buttress of the truth.
Who is the gentile/tax collector in my aforementioned scenario? Me or my friend? Who's Church is the pillar/buttruss of The Truth? Hers or mine?
IHS...Mary