I don't think so Mink. You come across angry about your past in many posts, meaning these experiences are still affecting you in a negative way. That's concerns me as your Christian brother, putting aside us being on opposite sides of the evil ideology of feminism. You don't seem to forgive or forget.
These experiences still affect me because they
haven't stopped. Even at my age (66) I still get hit on...and not in a very nice way. And I'm just walking down the street! I think I already mentioned the story about a man in a wheelchair asking for my help. He said he dropped his cell phone on his lap, and he thinks he may be sitting on it. He wanted me to reach between his bare short-wearing legs...
Uhhhh, no. Just no. The guy was grinning ear-to-ear before I walked away.
Or how about the guy who ran across the street and followed me to a 7-11 waiting outside for me to leave? Luckily, there was a burly man who worked there and saw that I was shaken up. He confronted the guy and chased him off the property.
Or the guy who approached me while I was waiting for a bus. Who tried to strike up a conversation that I was not interested in having. I asked him to please leave me alone. He started whining about how I was being "so MEAN" to him. I boarded the bus and at the last minute when the driver was closing the doors, the man jumped on the bus. He sat a few seats away from me, and out of the corner of my eye, I could see him staring at me. I pushed the button to signal the driver to stop. The man got off ahead of me. He kept looking back to see if I was still walking in the same direction. He ducked behind a podium. I crossed the street and walked quickly to a corner. HE saw that I crossed the street and hurried across the street as well. I jogged two blocks to a casino where I knew some employees. Ducked in one entrance and out the other. Grabbed a cab and went home.
And you wonder WHY I'm put off!
One point vids in the manosphere make time and time again is how so many female, self-proclaimed dating experts give horrible advice and remain single into their 30's. A wise woman would seek advice from a women in LTR's. Yesterday, there was a couple on the radio who were celebrating their 52 anniversary. When asked what advice they'd give, they basically said be humble, admit when you are wrong, forgive and be agreeable when you can.
While I have no problem doing that, I found that it was most often the MEN who have problems doing that. A man admits he's wrong? OMG! His EGO is at stake!
Another story? I had a boyfriend for a few years. One day, I was outside trying to change out the headlamp in HIS car while he was inside. I wrestled with the thing for about 30 minutes. Admitted defeat and asked him for help. He smirked, like "HA! You can't even twist off a lighbulb yourself! You need ME for help!" So, he went outside and tried to twist the thing off himself.
He couldn't do it. Spent about 10 minutes trying six ways to Sunday. He went back inside. Defeated. Ego shattered. In front of a WOMAN! A stupid, silly woman. I brought the car to our mechanic...who told me that "God HIMSELF couldn't have gotten this thing off!" Turned out that the bulb had MELTED into the connector and was FUSED. Car fixed. Went home and told boyfriend what happened. ACCUSED of making him "feel bad" about himself.....
Uhhhhhh......
Many vids show feminists are so brainwashed, they think men find attractive her being an argumentative, b*tch all the time; they've been convinced that being agreeable makes the woman a sucker. No! It makes them successful in relationships.
No, in a lot of cases it makes her a sucker. EASILY taken advantage of.
Compare this to me. I prolly shared too much about my marriage in this thread but doubt you can recall too many posts about me lamenting any relationship with women I ever had. Before I continue, I'll let you respond.
O.k. I responded. Have at it.
