Homosexuality: Wrong or Right?

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Scientists immediately rejected the inclusion of the lie that it is a mental illness.
I love how you use the term "Scientists" as if that makes them immune to political influence.

Looking at it fundamentally, having sex with something that is incapable of producing offspring is as mentally ill as one can get - on the same life dependent level of eating only what you cannot derive nourishment from. If such life sustaining acts are wasted and not deemed mental illness, then the standard of what constitutes mental illness is wrong.
 

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Your orientation is correct for you. not for everyone.
Christians believe in objective truth. What is right for me is right for everyone.
just as you skin color is correct for you but not for everyone.
Skin color has nothing to do with it. You seem to hold an incorrect assumption that what is true of one minority is true of all minorities.
What does a direction you are facing have to do with how you romantically love?
I have been arguing for over 70 pages that the propriety of sexual orientation depends on God's design for reproduction and his will for marriage. Based on that criteria, there is only one orientation fitting and suitable for reproduction. I gave you a neutral analogy highlighting the foolishness of acting contrary to aim and purpose. There is only one orientation that is compatible with reproduction.

A woman may have a romantic attraction to another woman. Still, if she wishes to obey God and live a good life, she should deny herself the pleasures typically associated with those feelings. Romance isn't the only kind of love available to her.
Fact. homosexuality is not a mental illness. It fails to meet even the broadest definition of mental illness
Fact. Geans can and are posses on only through one parent
Fact. Everyone's orientation is inborn
Fact. Legitimate scientific research has innumerable checks to ensure that researcher bias does not figure into that research
Those aren't facts. They are conclusions. And as I said, scientific conclusions aren't a matter of fact, they are a matter of philosophy.
Can is not the same as does. If you want to claim that a piece of research is biased based on the belief of the researcher then you need to demonstrate that for that research.
I don't think that is true. All we need to do is think critically about the scientific conclusion and reject it if necessary. I don't need to write a polemic against the research. I already gave you reasons to reject their conclusions.
That is no fact at all. The opposite is true. Scientists love finding things that break the dominant understanding of a subject. Doing opens up new routs of investigation and new paradigms of thinking.
Maybe that is true. I don't know. But I guarantee that scientists will not get published if their conclusions violate the dominant paradigm. I would think that anyone alive during the so-called Covid-19 would have seen that first hand.
Demonstrating that what you are presenting is not based in fact but on YOUR worldviews.
Yes, I am arguing from my worldview. What else would you expect? Do you honestly believe science is the ONLY means to knowledge and truth?
they are matters of fact and it's dishonest to say otherwise
Didn't anyone tell you that incredulity is not proof? You have a lot to learn if you need to understand that facts need to be interpreted. And you need to learn the difference between facts and truth.

Suppose a man saw a boy riding his sister's bike around the neighborhood. One day, as he was walking down the driveway, he noticed tire tracks on the front lawn. He saw the boy on his bike and asked him, "Young man, are these your tire tracks?" The young man replied, "No, sir. Those tracks are from my sister's bike." The boy provided the facts, but did he tell the truth?

I would say no, the boy was not telling the truth. He left out some facts and emphasized others in order to deceive the man.
Passing on the gene means her daughters will have higher fertility so yes it is an advantage
I already argued the point ad nauseam. The Bottom line is this. Here we see a clash of worldviews again. You seem to affirm a material cause for such things as romantic attraction. In my view, the idea that the product of the mind and spirit have a material cause contradicts what we know from everyday experience and the Biblical worldview. Man is responsible for his actions because he made those actions freely and without coercion. Christians do not accept, acknowledge or affirm that all human behaviors flow from genetic or environmental factors.

Just as people are not genetically predisposed to prefer chocolate over vanilla, human beings are not genetically predisposed to prefer the same gender. Preferring the same gender is indicative of a sinful nature, which is outside the will of God.
I love how you use the term "Scientists" as if that makes them immune to political influence.

Looking at it fundamentally, having sex with something that is incapable of producing offspring is as mentally ill as one can get - on the same life dependent level of eating only what you cannot derive nourishment from. If such life sustaining acts are wasted and not deemed mental illness, then the standard of what constitutes mental illness is wrong.
I like the phrase "life-sustaining" because I would love to make a video describing the anti-Christ as "anti-life." I'm not surprised that we lack the vocabulary to talk about anti-life. If I get time, I'll try to create one.
 

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Homosexuality: Wrong or Right?

Lev 18:
[22] Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.

Abomination is especially deplorable, repugnant, detestable, etc…

That leads to desolation …

Desolation is complete emptiness or destruction.

Complete emptiness or destruction is void of Gods Fullness and void of Gods wholeness.

A mans wholeness, is the newness of the mans…body and soul and spirit.

A mans fullness, is forever with God, God forever with the man.

Homosexual desires, wants, trying, choosing such lifestyle, electing surgeries to purport a fulfillment of outward appearance to aline with inward desires…

Can certainly be scientifically tested, analyzed, from every angle imaginable, documented, reported as their studies best conclusion…

It doesn’t change Gods Word, Gods shared understanding of how contrary homosexuality is to Gods hope and desire for His purpose of Creating and Making of ManKIND.

God is Just. His being JUST is unique to Him, by the Fact, He is not only the Creator….He is also the Maker of His Creations.

Continued…
 
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Continued…

God is JUST. An individual natural born man Had NO SAY, in becoming naturally born.

However, The created man, (form/body) is Given a soul, with Gods Breath, MAKING that thing (formed body, called man), to have the individual ability to learn, decide, his own desires to be fulfilled.

God is JUST. God can MAKE ANY of his creations Desires fulfilled.

God is SPIRIT. Natural man HAS a natural spirit in his natural heart.
God can Make the mans natural spirit of a man, meet or as the man desires.

IF a mans heart (spirit) desire is:
To Please God…
To Reject God…
To Deny God…
To Be With God…
To Be a man desiring men sexually…
To Be a woman desiring women sexually…
To Be an adult desiring children sexually…
To Be an extortioner, thief, liar, cheater, oppressor, murderer, ruthless….

Get the Picture?
God is ABLE, CAN, DOES, WILL….MAKE a mans Heart’s desires manifested.

IF a mans Heart desires that which is good, wholesome, according to Gods Understanding, God is able, can, does, will, Make that mans Heart able to be accomplished in wholesomeness, goodness, (the gambit of righteousness, etc.)

If a mans Heart desires that which is contrary to good, wholesomeness, righteous, (according to Gods Understanding), God is able, can, does, will accomplish in that mans heart as the man desires…In short called “hardening” that mans heart.
Aka, making the man reprobate.

To meet the desire of the heart of EVERY individual, God shall give to EVERY individual the power of His MAKING, that their hearts desire be accomplished.

The FACTS ARE…WHAT mens hearts DO DESIRE HAVE consequences.

* a hearts desire CAN NOT BE MADE simultaneously contrary to God AND compatible to God.
* a hearts desire without God shall be effected.
* a hearts desire with God shall be effected.

Scientists can test, gather information, conclude a multitude of reasonings of WHY individuals ARE or ARE not homosexuals …

Scientists are not in the business of contemplating, testing, documenting an individuals spiritual heart’s desires.

It is God who searches mens hearts and gives to each their hearts desires.

An individual advocating, promoting, defending choices and behaviors contrary to Gods good, righteousness, advocation, themselves shall have negative consequences.

Glory to God,
Taken
 

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Do I expect you to honestly look at all this? No, of course not. As far as the studies to I would expect you to latch onto some imagined study flaw and dismiss them or you will engage in juvenal word games involving claims of "conclusive" evidence even knowing that there is no such thing as conclusive evidence.

If it weren't for this whiny, pre-emptive posturing, I would have been happy to commend you for posting these studies. Alas, you did so kicking and screaming.

On a personal level i expect you to respond as you always do with insults, name calling, and belittlement.

The more adults act like children and project it onto others, the more I feel compelled to point out such behavior. It's the way I was raised. It's the way I raised my children. They seem sincerely grateful. I know I am.

If you want to play childish games fine.

Actually, I'd prefer to get away from that kind of thing but I'm not surprised that you've projected that onto me.

We can start with a rather study, from 30 years ago, no where near the oldest showing your claims that such research is in its infancy to be so much hot air.

Case in point: "Juvenal word games." Seizing upon my use of the word "infancy." If the oldest studies were 100 years old, they would still be in their infancy compared to some others.

LGBT ideology is new.

People have been trying to prove things scientifically for a lot longer than they have been trying to prove that sexual immorality is not immoral at all.

And the consensus of the scientific community is that much more is yet to be learned about the various factors determining sexual behavior than is already presumed to be known.

In truth, everything that needs to be known about it is recorded in Scripture.

Otherwise, it would be unreasonable for God to have expected people to behave properly with regard to sexuality before the sexual revolution.

Hamer DH, Hu S, Magnuson VL, Hu N, Pattatucci AM. A linkage between DNA markers on the X chromosome and male sexual orientation. Science. 1993
"The role of genetics in male sexual orientation was investigated by pedigree and linkage analyses on 114 families of homosexual men. Increased rates of same-sex orientation were found in the maternal uncles and male cousins of these subjects, but not in their fathers or paternal relatives," and found: "correlation between homosexual orientation and the inheritance of polymorphic markers on the X chromosome"

At the time the finding was controversial and many groups tried very hard to discredit it but the findings have been confirms by at least 15 subsequent studies: For example Hu S, Pattatucci AM, Patterson C, Li L, Fulker DW, Cherny SS, Kruglyak L, Hamer DH. Linkage between sexual orientation and chromosome Xq28 in males but not in females. Nat Genet. 1995

Following improvements in genetic mapping confirmed the Xq28 link Sanders, A., Martin, E., Beecham, G., et al, Genome-wide scan demonstrates significant linkage for male sexual orientation. Psychological Medicine, 2015 "We conducted a genome-wide linkage scan on 409 independent pairs of homosexual brothers (908 analyzed individuals in 384 families), by far the largest study of its kind to date." The confirmed the role of Xq28 and showed it to be a larger influence than previously thought and they also found a second linkage on Chromosome 8.

A Ganna et al. Large-scale GWAS reveals insights into the genetic architecture of same-sex sexual behavior. Science 2019 analyzed the DNA of nearly half a million people from the U.S. and the U.K. They focused on "five autosomal loci were significantly associated with same-sex sexual behavior." These 5 account for about 25% of genetic influence leading to homosexuality. The authors note that there are over 100 other loci that have yet to be analyzed. "Same-sex sexual behavior is influenced by not one or a few genes but many. Overlap with genetic influences on other traits provides insights into the underlying biology of same-sex sexual behavior,"

I'm not a scientist. I found the first of these studies on PubMed or some such place, and I have little doubt that it is legitimate. But I suspect that the same kind of correlations can be found in folks who are predisposed to lie, kill, and steal, and it just doesn't prove a thing. And, of course, I assume it would be most hatefully bigoted of me to invoke the old "correlation isn't causation" objection.

I could cite plenty of articles claiming that it’s effectively impossible to predict an individual’s sexual behavior from their genome (here's one now), but the more I look into the scientific(?) aspect of LGBT ideology, the more I see that it is designed to confuse issues—not clarify them.

Within this ideology, sexuality is broken down into different components such as sexual identity, gender identity, sexual attraction, and sexual behavior—effectively passing the moral buck along an endless circle like a game of "keep-away." Therefore, no responsibility for the relation between feelings and action is necessary (A-to-C thinking—the belief that Activating events result directly in emotional and behavioral Consequences).

In this state of things, a person's "sexual orientation" matters very little, if at all, because a person could conceivably be born with a heterosexual "orientation" and yet live their entire lives in denial as a practicing homosexual, and still be considered morally innocent, I suppose, according to LGBT ideology.

In the end, LGBT ideology, whether it carries a qualifying label as "Christian" or not, is born out of the critical theory discipline of the postmodern philosophy of despair, which divides humanity basically and fundamentally into two groups—the oppressors and the oppressed—rather than those who serve God and those who serve Him not. It will not stand in the judgment, and it would be best for those who cling to it to let it go now.

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I also couldn't help but notice that despite your vehement disapproval of my "conclusive" requirement, virtually all scientific research is done for the distinct purpose of drawing conclusions from the data.

As you've so nicely demonstrated here:

Looking briefly at the environmental influence one of the interesting studies that show a lack of environmental influence is Reiner WG. Psychosexual development in genetic males assigned female: the cloacal exstrophy experience. Child Adolesc Psychiatr Clin N Am. 2004 Genetic males who, through accidents, or being born without penises, were subjected to sex change and raised as girls. As adults these all men attracted to women and more than half identified as transexual. The fact that you cannot make a genetic male sexually attracted to another male by raising him as a girl makes any social or environmental claim out the window.

"Out the window" sounds pretty conclusive.

As usual, the rules you dictate only apply to people who aren't you.

And we are expected never to mind that Jesus can turn homosexuals into heterosexuals no matter how they were raised.

Because Jesus does save.

To the uttermost.

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Homosexuality is a sin, just like hating your brother or sister is being as a murderer. Its missing the mark of what God created for mankind. God allows people to make their own choices. While yes to me it is a sin. That does not mean I have the authority to condemn them. The only power that is given to people is the ability to have freewill and think, choose and act. If there is a crime, then it should be reported.
 
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Scientists immediately rejected the inclusion of the lie that it is a mental illness.
What about the Chief Scientist?
What conclusion has He determined on this scientific discussion?

He holds the most Nobel Peace Prizes more then all the rest combined AND holds all of the worlds Patents!!!
 

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I will be advocating for the side that homosexuality is inherently wrong, and the promotion of such actions and thoughts are evil. Similar or contrasting views are welcome and gladly accepted. Let us be in constant search for the truth during our discussion.
THE RELIGIOUS WAR ON LGBTQ IS PRODUCING COLLATERAL DAMAGE among a large percentage of those termed gay men, of whom a 2019 study by the Yale School of Medicine indicates 83% are closeted. If 3% of males are gay, then 2-3 in a hundred are closeted. Many of those are closeted because of religion, are in the pews. To those boys/men, these following scriptures may be of help.

Jesus said of the religious leaders of His day: "Yea, they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with their finger." (Matt 23:4 ASV)

Jesus said to those burdened by the religious leaders: "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matt 11:28-30 ASV) * Jesus does not say, "unless you are gay"!

The sin of adultery is mentioned 56 times in the Bible, the sin of fornication is in the Bible 40 times. Yet the NT Greek word modern translations often translate as homosexuality (arsenokoites) is found only twice in the NT: 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10. Two things to notice, 1st, the Greek translated "homosexuality" is distinguished from fornicators and adulterers; 2nd, the 2021 Updated Edition of the NRSV, by the Society of Biblical Literature states about the word arsenokoites: "Meaning of Gk uncertain".

If sex between two males itself alone was major sin, why is it not in the Ten Commandments? Why did Jesus not mention it when he spoke of Sodom? Why, when Paul is listing some commandments and love of neighbor, why did he not list it as sin?

"For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not covet, and if there be any other commandment, it is summed up in this word, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. Love worketh no ill to his neighbor: love therefore is the fulfilment of the law." (Rom 13:9-10 ASV) * True biblical love is not emotions or sexual desire, it is about how you treat others, as you wish to be treated, 1 Cor. 13:4-7.

About the Sodom story; has a gay forced himself on another, sodomizing? Breaking down the door? Gen. 19:9

The Leviticus reference, is for whom? "These are the commandments, which Jehovah commanded Moses for the children of Israel in mount Sinai." (Lev 27:34 ASV) *It was for the Israelite under the law of Moses; and Mosaic Law was "abolished" in Christ, Eph. 2:15 by nailing it to the cross, Col. 2:14.

The Rom. 1:27 reference clearly speaks of those so much "consumed with lust"(RSV), or "burned in their lust"(ASV), therefore they "gave up"(RSV) sex with women, or "leaving" sex with women. Has a gay been in a relationship with a woman from which he left or gave up? We supposedly use the "Historical-grammatical" approach to biblical interpretation. Why then do many ignore the historical and read into a passage their ideas from our culture of today? What was it like when Paul wrote this? A Greek philosopher living in Paul's day describes it just as Paul has, but in much greater detail -

From the Greek philosopher Dio Chrysostom (40-110 AD) in The Seventh or Euboean Discourse

Phrasing lifted from text numbered 133 through 152

"In dealing with brothel-keepers and their trade we must certainly betray no weakness as though something were to be said on both sides, but must sternly forbid them...Such men bring individuals together in union without love and intercourse without affection, and all for the sake of filthy lucre...For evils are never wont to remain as they are; they are ever active and advancing to greater wantonness if they meet no compelling check...Indeed, beginning with practices and habits that seem trivial and allowable, it acquires a strength and force that are uncontrollable, and no longer stops at anything...Now at this point we must assuredly remember that this adultery committed with outcasts, so evident in our midst and becoming so brazen and unchecked, is to a very great extent paving the way to hidden and secret assaults upon the chastity of women and boys of good family...The man whose appetite is insatiate in such things, when he finds there is no scarcity, no resistance, in this field, will have contempt for the easy conquest and scorn for a woman's love, as a thing too readily given — in fact, too utterly feminine — and will turn his assault against the male quarters, eager to befoul the youth who will very soon be magistrates and judges and generals, believing that in them he will find a kind of pleasure difficult and hard to procure. His state is like that of men who are addicted to drinking and wine-bibbing, who after long and steady drinking of unmixed wine, often lose their taste for it and create an artificial thirst by the stimulus of sweatings, salted foods, and condiments."

That does not seem to be describing simple sex between two males; but it is heterosexuals who are so eaten up with lust they eagerly rush into such depravity.

Demanding that a gay man/boy act contrary to his sexual nature for salvation, is to force him to rely on his own righteousness, and ignoring saved by grace through faith. But scripture reads -

"For they ignore God’s way of righteousness, and try to set up their own, and therefore they have not submitted themselves to God’s righteousness; for Christ is the end of the law and brings righteousness for everyone who has faith...If the confession ‘Jesus is Lord’ is on your lips, and the faith that God raised him from the dead is in your heart, you will find salvation. For faith in the heart leads to righteousness, and confession on the lips leads to salvation." (Rom 10:3-4, 9-10 REB)

"Christ was innocent of sin, and yet for our sake God made him one with human sinfulness, so that in him we might be made one with the righteousness of God." (2Cor 5:21 REB)

"There is no salvation through anyone else; in all the world no other name has been granted to mankind by which we can be saved." (Acts 4:12 REB)

There are definitely a couple of verses in Romans 14 that need to be considered:

"Who are you to pass judgment on servants of another? It is before their own lord that they stand or fall. And they will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make them stand." (Rom 14:4 NRSV) * It is the Holy Spirit who will convict the regenerate of sin if he is mistaken and in error. John 16:7ff

"it is right not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that makes your brother stumble. The faith that you have, keep between yourself and God; happy is he who has no reason to judge himself for what he approves. But he who has doubts is condemned, if he eats, because he does not act from faith; for whatever does not proceed from faith is sin." (Rom 14:21-23 RSV)

I neither endorse nor promote homosexuality, but it exists, and with the extremes seen in religious circles that come across as homophobic, I present here a scholarly counter-balance.
 

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THE RELIGIOUS WAR ON LGBTQ IS PRODUCING COLLATERAL DAMAGE among a large percentage of those termed gay men, of whom a 2019 study by the Yale School of Medicine indicates 83% are closeted. If 3% of males are gay, then 2-3 in a hundred are closeted. Many of those are closeted because of religion, are in the pews. To those boys/men, these following scriptures may be of help.

Jesus said of the religious leaders of His day: "Yea, they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with their finger." (Matt 23:4 ASV)

Jesus said to those burdened by the religious leaders: "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matt 11:28-30 ASV) * Jesus does not say, "unless you are gay"!

The sin of adultery is mentioned 56 times in the Bible, the sin of fornication is in the Bible 40 times. Yet the NT Greek word modern translations often translate as homosexuality (arsenokoites) is found only twice in the NT: 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10. Two things to notice, 1st, the Greek translated "homosexuality" is distinguished from fornicators and adulterers; 2nd, the 2021 Updated Edition of the NRSV, by the Society of Biblical Literature states about the word arsenokoites: "Meaning of Gk uncertain".

If sex between two males itself alone was major sin, why is it not in the Ten Commandments? Why did Jesus not mention it when he spoke of Sodom? Why, when Paul is listing some commandments and love of neighbor, why did he not list it as sin?

"For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not covet, and if there be any other commandment, it is summed up in this word, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. Love worketh no ill to his neighbor: love therefore is the fulfilment of the law." (Rom 13:9-10 ASV) * True biblical love is not emotions or sexual desire, it is about how you treat others, as you wish to be treated, 1 Cor. 13:4-7.

About the Sodom story; has a gay forced himself on another, sodomizing? Breaking down the door? Gen. 19:9

The Leviticus reference, is for whom? "These are the commandments, which Jehovah commanded Moses for the children of Israel in mount Sinai." (Lev 27:34 ASV) *It was for the Israelite under the law of Moses; and Mosaic Law was "abolished" in Christ, Eph. 2:15 by nailing it to the cross, Col. 2:14.

The Rom. 1:27 reference clearly speaks of those so much "consumed with lust"(RSV), or "burned in their lust"(ASV), therefore they "gave up"(RSV) sex with women, or "leaving" sex with women. Has a gay been in a relationship with a woman from which he left or gave up? We supposedly use the "Historical-grammatical" approach to biblical interpretation. Why then do many ignore the historical and read into a passage their ideas from our culture of today? What was it like when Paul wrote this? A Greek philosopher living in Paul's day describes it just as Paul has, but in much greater detail -

From the Greek philosopher Dio Chrysostom (40-110 AD) in The Seventh or Euboean Discourse

Phrasing lifted from text numbered 133 through 152

"In dealing with brothel-keepers and their trade we must certainly betray no weakness as though something were to be said on both sides, but must sternly forbid them...Such men bring individuals together in union without love and intercourse without affection, and all for the sake of filthy lucre...For evils are never wont to remain as they are; they are ever active and advancing to greater wantonness if they meet no compelling check...Indeed, beginning with practices and habits that seem trivial and allowable, it acquires a strength and force that are uncontrollable, and no longer stops at anything...Now at this point we must assuredly remember that this adultery committed with outcasts, so evident in our midst and becoming so brazen and unchecked, is to a very great extent paving the way to hidden and secret assaults upon the chastity of women and boys of good family...The man whose appetite is insatiate in such things, when he finds there is no scarcity, no resistance, in this field, will have contempt for the easy conquest and scorn for a woman's love, as a thing too readily given — in fact, too utterly feminine — and will turn his assault against the male quarters, eager to befoul the youth who will very soon be magistrates and judges and generals, believing that in them he will find a kind of pleasure difficult and hard to procure. His state is like that of men who are addicted to drinking and wine-bibbing, who after long and steady drinking of unmixed wine, often lose their taste for it and create an artificial thirst by the stimulus of sweatings, salted foods, and condiments."

That does not seem to be describing simple sex between two males; but it is heterosexuals who are so eaten up with lust they eagerly rush into such depravity.

Demanding that a gay man/boy act contrary to his sexual nature for salvation, is to force him to rely on his own righteousness, and ignoring saved by grace through faith. But scripture reads -

"For they ignore God’s way of righteousness, and try to set up their own, and therefore they have not submitted themselves to God’s righteousness; for Christ is the end of the law and brings righteousness for everyone who has faith...If the confession ‘Jesus is Lord’ is on your lips, and the faith that God raised him from the dead is in your heart, you will find salvation. For faith in the heart leads to righteousness, and confession on the lips leads to salvation." (Rom 10:3-4, 9-10 REB)

"Christ was innocent of sin, and yet for our sake God made him one with human sinfulness, so that in him we might be made one with the righteousness of God." (2Cor 5:21 REB)

"There is no salvation through anyone else; in all the world no other name has been granted to mankind by which we can be saved." (Acts 4:12 REB)

There are definitely a couple of verses in Romans 14 that need to be considered:

"Who are you to pass judgment on servants of another? It is before their own lord that they stand or fall. And they will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make them stand." (Rom 14:4 NRSV) * It is the Holy Spirit who will convict the regenerate of sin if he is mistaken and in error. John 16:7ff

"it is right not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that makes your brother stumble. The faith that you have, keep between yourself and God; happy is he who has no reason to judge himself for what he approves. But he who has doubts is condemned, if he eats, because he does not act from faith; for whatever does not proceed from faith is sin." (Rom 14:21-23 RSV)

I neither endorse nor promote homosexuality, but it exists, and with the extremes seen in religious circles that come across as homophobic, I present here a scholarly counter-balance.
@Arthur81 asks: "If sex between two males itself alone was major sin, why is it not in the Ten Commandments? Why did Jesus not mention it when he spoke of Sodom?"

Dear Arthur,

The answer to your question is as obvious as the nose on a person's face!

It is called Foundational Truth found in the Holy Scriptures that were written for children to understand.

God's Children's Book begins in Genesis = "Male and Female HE created them"
 
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THE RELIGIOUS WAR ON LGBTQ IS PRODUCING COLLATERAL DAMAGE among a large percentage of those termed gay men, of whom a 2019 study by the Yale School of Medicine indicates 83% are closeted. If 3% of males are gay, then 2-3 in a hundred are closeted. Many of those are closeted because of religion, are in the pews. To those boys/men, these following scriptures may be of help.

Jesus said of the religious leaders of His day: "Yea, they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with their finger." (Matt 23:4 ASV)

Jesus said to those burdened by the religious leaders: "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matt 11:28-30 ASV) * Jesus does not say, "unless you are gay"!

The sin of adultery is mentioned 56 times in the Bible, the sin of fornication is in the Bible 40 times. Yet the NT Greek word modern translations often translate as homosexuality (arsenokoites) is found only twice in the NT: 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10. Two things to notice, 1st, the Greek translated "homosexuality" is distinguished from fornicators and adulterers; 2nd, the 2021 Updated Edition of the NRSV, by the Society of Biblical Literature states about the word arsenokoites: "Meaning of Gk uncertain".
Wow, what a terrific post.
This is a refreshingly balanced view of the issue. Thanks.
The church tends to make this a B+W issue, but it is in fact very complex.

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@Arthur81 asks: "If sex between two males itself alone was major sin, why is it not in the Ten Commandments? Why did Jesus not mention it when he spoke of Sodom?"

Dear Arthur,

The answer to your question is as obvious as the nose on a person's face!

It is called Foundational Truth found in the Holy Scriptures that were written for children to understand.

God's Children's Book begins in Genesis = "Male and Female HE created them"
I don't get what you think this has to do with sexual acts between males. No one denies God created male and female. I've not written about the modern perversion of the definition of marriage, to make it include same-sex marriage.

First - You seem to be making the creation the determiner of what is sin. I know of no scripture that teaches that.

Second - We live in a fallen world, not the "good" of creation. Jesus showed how living in a fallen world sometimes does not fit the "good" of creation:
Mat 19:8-9 KJVA He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
 
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If sex between two males itself alone was major sin, why is it not in the Ten Commandments? Why did Jesus not mention it when he spoke of Sodom? Why, when Paul is listing some commandments and love of neighbor, why did he not list it as sin?
It is called fornication and at the very least is sexual immorality... which fornication is.

1 Cor 6:9 states

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Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,

That is New Testament and if it is not major sin I don't want to know the major sinners punishment
 

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It is called fornication and at the very least is sexual immorality... which fornication is.
You know the difference between fornication and adultery, correct?
Knowing that, puts an entirely different light on this scripture about divorce.
The church and modern translators got it wrong. (I know, I know... I'm off topic)

Matthew 19:9 KJV
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication,
and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

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I don't get what you think this has to do with sexual acts between males.
There is only one thing that should be considered about the act itself. As I already stated.

NASB 1995 1 Cor 6:9
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,

If those are your desires the word of the day needs to be abstinence.

I, as never married, have checked every aspect for an excuse out of that in my life. It is not there.
 

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You know the difference between fornication and adultery, correct?
Knowing that, puts an entirely different light on this scripture about divorce.
The church and modern translators got it wrong. (I know, I know... I'm off topic)

Matthew 19:9 KJV
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication,
and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

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Yep. I know.... and I am not talking about divorce.

And I know all too well 1 Cor 6:9 which covers this entire thread

NASB 1995
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
 
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I don't get what you think this has to do with sexual acts between males. No one denies God created male and female. I've not written about the modern perversion of the definition of marriage, to make it include same-sex marriage.

First - You seem to be making the creation the determiner of what is sin. I know of no scripture that teaches that.

Second - We live in a fallen world, not the "good" of creation. Jesus showed how living in a fallen world sometimes does not fit the "good" of creation:
Mat 19:8-9 KJVA He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
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#1. God determined that His 'Good' Creation is the Dictionary for His Children to find the definition(s) of sin.

Your quoting of Matt 19:8-9 underscores this greatly.

AND, if we BEGIN with the Dictionary Lesson from the LORD in Matt 19:4-6 we SEE exactly THAT!!!

"And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ 5and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”"
 
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Absolute rubbish. The mental scars that remain fom non-homosexual perversion are nearly if not every bit (in many cases) as spiritually deforming as are those of the homosexual type.

And every time you see a biblical reference to fornication, adultery, or sexual immorality, homosexuality is included and implied in the spiritual condemnation.

The human race is not going to escape reaping the carnal seed it has sown apart from the infinite grace of the LORD Jesus Christ. If the common sins are described by Him as the metaphorical eye that must be plucked out, how much more then should we devolve upon ourselves to cast sexual perversion at the foot of our dear Saviour.

In the inner cities, fornication is so rampant that genetic mutations are being promulgated at an unprecedented and exponential rate.

The hook-up culture has people who don't even know they are brother and sister toying with the sacred charge to leave father and mother and cleave one to another.

As a result, children are developing what used to be called adult-onset diabetes and having heart attacks and strokes!

ENOUGH OF THE CODDLING OF THOSE WHO PERSIST IN STRANGE AMALGAMATION!!! IT'S TIME THE CHILDREN OF ADAM CAME TO THEIR SENSES!!! LET THEM FALL UPON THE NECK OF CHRIST AND EMBRACE HIM WHOLLY!!!

HE WILL SUPPLY THEIR EVERY NEED!!!

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You wrote "every time you see a biblical reference to fornication, adultery, or sexual immorality, homosexuality is included" and you have indeed included the lousy modern choice in translation, changing from "fornication" to "sexual immorality". Yes indeed, you can stick whatever you wish under "sexual morality", but it is only your opinion. Nowhere in scripture do you find fornication or adultery in a context of two males? I can only find M-F contexts. I see a lot of pious sounding phrasing in your reply, but NO scripture with your exegesis.
 

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#1. God determined that His 'Good' Creation is the Dictionary for His Children to find the definition(s) of sin.

Your quoting of Matt 19:8-9 underscores this greatly.

AND, if we BEGIN with the Dictionary Lesson from the LORD in Matt 19:4-6 we SEE exactly THAT!!!

"And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ 5and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”"
You wrote: "#1. God determined that His 'Good' Creation is the Dictionary for His Children to find the definition(s) of sin."

Show me the scripture passage or verse that states that. You can only read that into the scripture out of your own mind. The fact God created two sexes, male and female, has nothing to do with some few males having sex with other males. There are quirks and anomalies in fallen nature that are not sin. As in Jesus' example, divorce did not exist at the beginning, but in our fallen state, in the case of a spouse's fornication, divorce is okayed by Jesus. In the physical realm, being born as intersex, both male and female sex organs, is any choice in dealing with it going to be sin? I suppose color blindness or left handedness is also sin.
 
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Yep. I know.... and I am not talking about divorce.

And I know all too well 1 Cor 6:9 which covers this entire thread

NASB 1995
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
Your 1995 NASB translates arsenokoites as "homosexuals"; but the NKJV translates malakos as homosexuals. Which is it? Sounds to me like the footnote in the NRSVue is right about the uncertainty of the Greek. If you read the KJV, RV, ASV and YLT, and use the 1828 Webster's Dictionary on the key words of 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10; you see arsenokoites is sodomites, which is NOT homosexuals and the 1828 makes it perfectly clear what sodomites are. There is no variance in the Greek manuscripts on these words, so new discoveries can't affect it. I'll stay with the older, standard translations on this. After the 1946 erred in translating by "homosexuals", the more scholarly translations quit using the term; the RSV Rev Ed, NRSV and REB. The word and concept of homosexuality did not even come into English until 1900, since the concept originated in Germany in 1869. The Bible has no Hebrew or Greek word equivalent to "homosexual".