Martin W.
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I get bummed for the people I care about that are atheists... but I understand why they struggle... they look at the world around them and see so much pain and suffering and can't understand how a loving God could let it all happen...
Hi Robbie
I snipped part of your post and reproduced it above, My comment is not directed at you , but I want to add some of my own experience with atheist friends and family. I am talking about otherwise good and decent people (who do not believe in God) .
Here is what I try to do and it gets them thinking .......
1. I do not get all mushy about some loving God who just lets things bad things happen in the world. He has heard that all before. It still makes no sense to him. He cannot reconcile a cruel world with a loving God. I side with them , and tell them I do not blame them for avoiding a God like that. And I mean it.
2. I tell them it is sometimes wise to be an atheist , there is a lot of religious nonsense in the world , I tell him we should all be very cautious and not buy into every religious claim around. I tell him he is wise to be skeptical and careful.
3. I agree with them that a loving God would not preside over a world full of pain and suffering and just let it keep happening.
4. I tell them if there really was a "loving God" he would end this broken world and start over with a new world.
5. At this point I have agreed with the atheist , I defend his thinking , and I am sincere. Yet he knows I believe in God. Go figure.
In summary , I am agreeing with the atheist (and I meant what I said to him) , I have not argued or debated with him and I leave it at that. I have endorsed his position , yet he knows I am a christian.
If he should ask for an explanation . , I first tell him it is hard to explain in everyday words but I give a dry , non-religious overview approximately as follows:
-- God hates this broken down world as much as we do .
--He has made a decision. It is over. It has ended.
--He is not a loving God. He is a destroyer. He will destroy all that is not good.
--He has decided to start over and make everything brand new.
--OUR problem is that we function in time . He does not. He is in eternity (a place without time)
--we get to see the thousands of years play out , he only sees the instant decision he made earlier.
--the thousands of years that play out gives you and I the opportunity to get in on the new deal.
--that is the reason we are still here in a cruel world.
--This "Loving God" we talk about refers to his love for everybody , including the atheist.
--but we have to want it. It is our choice. We are the judge of our destiny.
--Stick with the destroying God that you say you do not believe in , and you will have him
--If you want the loving God , and the new deal , you have to re-consider your atheism.
--its your move my friend. Any more questions ? I am very busy. Don't waste my time.
--In other words I put him in charge , I let him be the God of his own destiny ,
--I have never met anyone who does not want to determine his own destiny.
It makes the God that the atheist does not believe in , seem worthy of more consideration.
Often they do reconsider..
Atheists are more often just practically minded , than anti-God.
Sometimes intelligent straight talk goes farther than the mushy lovey stuff.
Besides , they have heard it all before anyway ............