I would like to open a thread where women can safely discuss issues related to abuse in relationships with a husband, fiance, or a boyfriend.
This is a place to discuss issues of childhood abuse, trauma, and abuse/trauma in marriage (etc) and how to handle this Biblically. (No, God does not require a woman to endure abuse in marriage.)
You will not be labeled a contentious feminist in this thread for expressing your disappointments, hurts, and sense of grief and loss at not having the marriage God intended you to have. You will not be guilted here for deciding to leave an abusive husband.
I don't know how often I'll add to this thread. And idk if any other women on this forum have experience related to TRUE abuse in a marriage. (And I don't mean a man who is lazy and won't hold a job, or who refuses to pick up his dirty laundry from the living room floor.) I am referring to a husband abusing a wife in sexual, physical, spiritual, verbal ways. Some of these may require physical separation, and others require another approach such as patience and prayer and maybe physical separation within the same home (taking breathers, time to be refreshed and strengthened in the Lord).
We can discuss ways to honor and forgive your husband even while separating, or in some cases, seeking divorce.
If any woman reads this and is in danger, please feel free to private message me if you need to talk or need prayer.
Blessings,
Abby
This is a place to discuss issues of childhood abuse, trauma, and abuse/trauma in marriage (etc) and how to handle this Biblically. (No, God does not require a woman to endure abuse in marriage.)
You will not be labeled a contentious feminist in this thread for expressing your disappointments, hurts, and sense of grief and loss at not having the marriage God intended you to have. You will not be guilted here for deciding to leave an abusive husband.
I don't know how often I'll add to this thread. And idk if any other women on this forum have experience related to TRUE abuse in a marriage. (And I don't mean a man who is lazy and won't hold a job, or who refuses to pick up his dirty laundry from the living room floor.) I am referring to a husband abusing a wife in sexual, physical, spiritual, verbal ways. Some of these may require physical separation, and others require another approach such as patience and prayer and maybe physical separation within the same home (taking breathers, time to be refreshed and strengthened in the Lord).
We can discuss ways to honor and forgive your husband even while separating, or in some cases, seeking divorce.
If any woman reads this and is in danger, please feel free to private message me if you need to talk or need prayer.
Blessings,
Abby