Equality:
Isa 40:25
To whom then will ye liken me, or shall I be equal? saith the Holy One.
Isa 46:5
To whom will ye liken me, and make
me equal, and compare me, that we may be like?
Jhn 5:18
Therefore the Jews sought the more to kill him, because he not only had broken the sabbath, but said also that God was his Father, making himself equal with God.
Phl 2:6
Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
Phl 2:7
But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
Phl 2:8
And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
So prior to being found in the fashion of a man, Jesus was in the form of God.
Other translations:
NIV
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
NASB20
who, as He
already existed in the form of God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
So to me this is saying that Jesus is God in the natural form. That God became a man to show himself to us.
And as a man he showed us how we should do the Father's will through the flesh which is the same as doing in the name of Jesus after the Spirit.
Jesus is the Father in Spirit and the Son in the flesh. They are one in the same except one is spiritual and the other carnal.
And his death was carnal. And all carnal men must die, he tasted death himself for all mankind.
It definately is a hard thing to grasp.
I guess you could say it takes faith.

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