We do have a choice, and the Lord will ot force this on anyone. Scripture says, I have set before you life and death therefore life is the better choice. But he wont force it on anyone.
And sometimes that's the point where people have said, yeah but I didnt ask to be here...
And I beg to differ on that too. Scripture says He does not change. (Malachi 3:6) so the Lord was already like that and wont change His mind and force you live eternally with Him if you dont want to.
As far as I didnt ask to be here goes...Doesnt scripture say that He knew us before we were in the womb? So if Jesus doesnt force Himself on people and He knew us before we were in the womb...then it stands to reason that He did not force us to be born here, He doesn't change! So we did choose to be here, or, at the very least, we agreed to it.
Just because He gave us all Amnesia when we were born doesnt change the facts, it just means we dont remember doing that! I believe we probably chose our own parents before being conceived.
But if one thinks about it...so if we knew the task set before us at that time, then it also stands to reason that we also knew the reward if we came out of it alive...That must be some big reward to make us want to come to this hellhole!
And again, if you look at scripture, that's exactly what it says, our reward is beyond our (earthly) comprehension. It will be that good. Hang in there Brother! In His strength, we can do this!