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@Ziggy Yes, well, you must know; and the news has probably understandably started to take that effect.I'll probably smoke like a train farouk,
for a few days at least.
HUGS
@Ziggy Well...maybe if you make sure you get plenty of rest; and read passages of Scripture slowly, and so the inhales that you do might then be less frequent because your mind would be concentrating on other things.It's kicking in..
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@ZiggyI'm hoping it was pain free.
He was right in the house and his mother never heard him. So I believe it was sudden.
There is nothing I can do. I signed everything over to him in the divorce.
Hid brother is asking me all kinds of questions I don't have any answers for.
I don't know if he had a will, a beneficiary, a lawyer...
My heart goes out to His friend Sam. He was the lawnman I hired when we first moved there.
They became really good friends. They worked on each other's vehicles, engines and motors.. couldn't get their heads out from under the hood.
Unless it was dinner time.
I called Sam when I couldn't get Mark on the phone.
He found him.
He's broken up pretty bad right now. I just talked to him on the phone.
It's going to be a long night...
Thank You
Hugs
@Ziggy
It's hard.......
I guess you would ideally have wanted to be nearer in order to participate more in the funeral arrangements.
Maybe MIL and Sam smoke also? Let's hope this whole sad experience in some way helps them spiritually; and the fact that you can talk to each other on the 'phone must help all round also...
@ZiggyI'm not good with things like that.
I have a lot of regrets right now.
My mother passed away when she was 60. I was in New Hampshire she lived in Maine.
She had a heart attack in her sleep and didn't wake up one morning. My Dad called to tell me she was gone.
My oldest brother had cancer. I was on the truck in Colorado when my dad called me and told me he was going fast.
I didn't make it back in time. He was 40.
My other brother had blood clots. He died Easter morning watching a football game. I lived in Florida.
My dad called to say he passed away. I didn't even know he was sick. He was 56.
Mark would have been 60 next month. He lives in Florida I live in Maine.
Everynight I call my dad at 6pm sharp. I Never forget to tell him I love him and goodbye..
Neither of them smoke.. well maybe Sam does on occasion. I don't remember.
I won't be able to talk to mom until they get her settle in Hospice for a couple days.
So I'm going to keep in touch with his brother who is in New Hampshire trying to figure all this out.
I'm never in the right place at the right time..
I need to go argue about politics or something..
I don't do well with things
THANK YOU
Hugs
maybe some things are ok not to forget.@Ziggy
Give the politicians a miss....
I do like to remember Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the ending, the first and the last (Revelation); He is greater than all circumstances...He by the eternal Spirit offered Himself to God and He purges the believer's conscience (Hebrews 9).
(If MIL doesn't smoke, I guess no need to start, either....)
@Cassandra Thanks for your great contrib.! :)Yes, I would. It worked for me!. Be sure your ejuice is tobacco flavored, and not a fruity type. It takes a couple of days to get used to--then it's fine. You will get your second wind in a few days. After that, every couple f weeks, decrease the % nicotine. It wont affect you much then when you get to zero%, it is almost over. A couple weeks, and then you are done.
Many times the Lord takes the desire away, but In my case, no. And i wonder if it was because I suffered from major depression for a long time, and I'm a different sort. It may have been more of a coddle--hope you know what I saying here. Anyway, I'm thankful it is over. And thank god--He was there the whole time.
@Cassandrai read somewhere that vaping was created to help folk stop smoking. I don't know.
Hi @FluffyYellowDuck How is it going with you? a while ago you were posting your experiences while trying to quit.
Hi; I guess it's as a means to help quit cigarettes....I don't think you should do it. There is no way it will benefit your body.
If there is a possibility, you should give it up.
@FluffyYellowDuck Well, a lot of ppl do seem to think it's better to be vaping than smoking cigarettes; my own thought is that "moralizing" against itmakes little sense; but if from a practical perspective vaping can help people quit nicotine, then maybe it has something to commend it.I ended up under a lot of pressure and took up smoking again. I ended up getting a new pod for a small ecig (not blowing clouds around here) and just realized I have been smoke free for like two weeks, give or take 2-3 in between that.
Problem is the nicotine is a stimulant and people with ADHD like myself unknowingly tend to use that as a form of self-medication because it helps with attention and reduces the "dadadada" going on in the brain all of time.
(The only reason I know this is because I fully intend to hack my brain.)
We don't all have hyperactivity on the outside but some of us got hamsters doing wheelies on the inside. So I'm just chillin'.
Maybe I'll give it up completely or maybe I'll just take it slow because extra stress would not be good for me right now
@VictoryinJesus Sorry that it hurts you to vape. @FluffyYellowDuck recently said it seems to help her cut down on nicotine but of course individual needs can vary a lot.I tried vaping and couldn’t inhale without pain. I have an inhaler for asthma and for me vaping feels harsher on breathing in. I cough worse with vaping than with cigarettes.
Work with the Lord. He knows you are stressed. You are working toward quitting--God knows this. I vaped. And I feel like the Lord was with me the whole time, and i was able to quit. I am a high stress individual too. I am been hospitalized for major depression at least twice (years and years ago). I'm sure that what i did --vaping with full strength e juice and then down to 0% nicotine was the way that I was to do it.I ended up under a lot of pressure and took up smoking again. I ended up getting a new pod for a small ecig (not blowing clouds around here) and just realized I have been smoke free for like two weeks, give or take 2-3 in between that.
Problem is the nicotine is a stimulant and people with ADHD like myself unknowingly tend to use that as a form of self-medication because it helps with attention and reduces the "dadadada" going on in the brain all of time.
(The only reason I know this is because I fully intend to hack my brain.)
We don't all have hyperactivity on the outside but some of us got hamsters doing wheelies on the inside. So I'm just chillin'.
Maybe I'll give it up completely or maybe I'll just take it slow because extra stress would not be good for me right now
@Cassandra So vaping definitely seems to have helped you cut down...Work with the Lord. He knows you are stressed. You are working toward quitting--God knows this. I vaped. And I feel like the Lord was with me the whole time, and i was able to quit. I am a high stress individual too. I am been hospitalized for major depression at least twice (years and years ago). I'm sure that what i did --vaping with full strength e juice and then down to 0% nicotine was the way that I was to do it.
We are all different people, but God knows each of us and our limits. I think the vape ways is less stress. That is what I would do in your case.