You have said this often Dave...why?
Where does it say that?
I have not met any one who "knows what they are saying"....
That is why we speak in tongues in the service and the member with the gift of interpretation then speaks it out for the assembly. Every joint supplying.
In private we pray in tongues, we do not know what we are saying...we can have a strong understand whether it is a prayer burden, or a overflowing of joy and thanksgiving to The Father...
Paul says in the church he spoke with the understanding..he was a teacher..but he also said "I speak in tongues
more than ye all..."
Even a 8 yr old can see that if he spoke with the understanding in the meetings , then his speaking in tongues 'more than ye all' was in Paul's private life.
I have understood why you threw it all out. You had foolish and immature teachers. 'you were ruined' for the gifts..they will answer for that.
But why you hit those of us so brutally hard which did not have idiot shepherds like you...I don't understand.
Just because I got sold a bad egg, I would not go around telling everyone I met that all eggs are bad.