Thanks for the reply! I am not offended. First, I understand what your saying and why you believe what you believe - your post is clear.
Now, there are a few ideas I would like to discuss further:
1. I do believe that people have become cynical about church, but I am talking about people who are church-going Christians - those who are not cynical, but still talk about how the church they attend is almost not a real part of their Christianity - because they are real Christians who have a real relationship with Christ, not some pewsitter. You know what I mean? It is almost uncool to say that church is important because you might be claiming to follow men rather than God.
I don't think saying that church is important is uncool. To the opposite. I'm NOT into comitting less and trying less because it's not working (ie "the church they attend is almost not a real part of their christianity"). But if it isn't working, if the body is not edified there, I'm into asking questions like "is it really the Church of Jesus Christ?" The thing is, it might work for one person, and that's good for them, but does it work for the building up of the whole body? If the answer is no, I think then that is simply means we can go deeper. By the way, I also want to clarify that I am in no way saying that there are not real christians in whatever denomination you can come up with. I am not against the people... But I don't see it as the way to go deep.
2."It is not Christ starting the church anymore but men." I think this is a pretty bold statement.....I am not a fan of denominations - I am Catholic, after all; but I still think that God is using men regardless of whether they veer off the road.... If were up to God, I think people would have remained in the offspring of the early church and it would have probably looked a lot different than all the Catholic Churches out there. But, Christ is working within our limitations. Have you ever worked with cognitively / emotionally impaired people? You can have the coolest plan for them - the most creative treatment plan ever, but if you are not flexible and allow them to adapt the plan into their own language, you are going to have a tantrum on your hands, right before they tune you out for good. God is working with a creation with serious limitations and the power of freewill. The great thing is, He knows this fact better than we do and He chooses to love us. I think He is profoundly more flexible, patient, and merciful than we can image. Yet, He calls us to come together as a church, which requires the limited, sinful (less than perfect) participation of man.
I absolutely agree that he still uses whatever men do. I do think God is patient and faithfull... As far as we will go, he will go with us. Kind of like it says "draw close to the Lord and he will draw close to you". Figuratively (it is a matter of the heart, after all), I think if we take one step towards him, he takes one towards us, if we take 3 so does he, and so forth. I'm not saying that NOTHING happens in denominations, far from it. And God turns everything for good for those who love him. If one really loves him, I definitely believe God will turn things for his eternal good whatever denomination he is in (love requiring faithfulness). Only what I'm saying is not that the grace or love of God is exclusively for those who take, say, at least 10 steps. What I'm trying to say, show, and most of all learn, is how do we take even more and even greater steps... And I think it's necessary we let the Spirit organize us to go really deep.
3. "Religion is the method that man wants to use to communicate to God." I disagree. Religion is the language we use to communicate with God. Religion is just a set of symbols - just like language. We cannot share our ideas with God without the language of religion. It is religion that teaches us and conforms us to God's Will for us; along with helping us discern the voice of God and determine orthodoxy from heresy.
I suspect we are not meaning religion in quite the same way, at least to a degree, but I'm not sure. Still, I think we can agree that it is common to see one man of religion who belives something ABSOLUTELY opposite to another man of religion. In which case religion failed to bring these two men together.
I think if we don't seek the Spirits guidance, we're lost. After all, the Pharisees for example were very religious, and yet they were diametrically opposed to the message of Jesus. Don't get me wrong, I am not comparing anyone to them, I am no man's judge. But I am pointing to is how 'the letter kills and the spirit gives life'. How is that? Well if you follow the letter, you are taking matters into your own hands, but I think that the letter is there to teach us how to follow the spirit, or at least point us in the right direction.
Example: Who sent out Paul and Barnabas? God himself! Who's appointing pastors, clergy, etc?
4. "it allows man to communicate with God all the while keeping the control in the hands of man. God wants to communicate with us not by religion, but by his Spirit. The Spirit blows where it wishes, no one can control it or direct it." No offense, but I think this is the myth that drives people to divide 'religion' from 'spirituality'. It is a false dichotomy - religion is the language of spirituality. If you are only referring to organized religion / church as being confining......I still disagree for the same reason I disagree with a teenager who wants to quit school because they want to learn on their own. The fact is, we need the discipline and structure of the church to compel us to grow in our spiritual walk with Christ. I am involved in mystical prayer - if I didn't have a spiritual director, who was grounded in God's Word and Church doctrine, I could easily slide off into Shirley McClainism / transcendentalism / heresy. The early church and the monks and hermits knew this danger to be real. Finally, I think God wants to communicate with us, period. If some people need to rely more on the mechanics of the Mass to connect with God, so be it. Their sanctification requires more concrete symbols and participation than others.
Yes, we definitely need structure, like anyone learning something. Only our goal is to walk in the Spirit, in love and be like Christ. We need discipline and structure, but ultimately we have ONE teacher God. Here's where I have to make myself very clear: I am NOT saying Christianity is everyone on their own and I am NOT saying we shouldn't listen to anyone but God. But we need people who are led of God so that when they speak, it is the authority of God that they speak, and his words. We need prophets to teach us. A man appointed and anointed of God can teach men to be godly because he carries God's authority. A man appointed by men can only teach you to be what a man is according to them. I believe in structure, but according to the Spirit, not an organization. And I think you can rebel against one, the other, or both!
As to those who need 'mechanics' to connect with God, I absolutely agree! And I think that is how God often uses the system, for those in need! I do not condemn them in any sense. The institution serves that purpose and that's fine. But I do think it is important to call people deeper. Some might not be able or ready to go deeper, and they never might be and that's fine! But the call still has to be made so that those who DO want a deeper walk and are willing to go down that road can take it and run!
One more point......the Spirit is like the wind, not a wispy breeze that can be blocked by human will. God's Will be done, regardless of how much we try to resist or refuse to fully engage in religious language (pew-sitting).
Again, I absolutely agree. We can't stop his will. But I think it is better for our own sake that we get in sync with it. God doesn't need us, if he has to he'll make the stones cry out. I don't say it because He needs us, he definitely doesn't need me, but because we need HIM. If we get in sync with his plan instead of being against it, the better! I think in a sense that's what Christ came to do! Christ didn't need to come if the rocks could of been raised to cry out... But Christ wanted to come to save us, out of love for those who love him!
5. "I must also clarify I am in no way protestant or calvinistic or lutheran or reformed etc etc. The reform of something that is organized by men just means some men dont like how it's organized and want to organize it differently. Therefore I don't agree with the reform." I hear what you are saying about not agreeing with the Reformation or the doctrines of the Reformers, but I think you maybe failing to acknowledge their contributions to your faith. The fact is, if you are not really Protestant you are still Catholic. I suspect that you follow the idea that the Bible is the final authority? That faith without works saves? That ultimately, God's saving grace requires nothing from you, and everything from God? Those are the tenets of Protestantism.
Actually, you might be surprised... ;)
Faith without works is dead, and I think if you don't serve the master and endure to the end, there is no reward for that. There is no reward for the sluggard. That gives me no leverage to judge a person, "only God can judge a person's whole life" (quote from I can't remember who) and it is according to what we are given, "to who much is given much is required" (this one I remember who it's from ;) ).
I think God makes saving grace available. I must answer in faith and obedience. If I neglect the grace of God and such a great salvation, I'm in big trouble. It's actually kind of scary! If I go wrong, I could be Judas... I hope that God in his mercy will keep me from falling in a way that I could never rise. But I don't know that until after!
So no, I don't follow the tenets of Protestantism, though these are the ones I was originally taught. I'm definitely not catholic either, where I was raised up until 7 (Switzerland) I never knew of it, and here in Canada I saw it, but my parents are protestant, so I was not influenced by it.
6. "God builds his church how he wishes to and uses who he wants. He makes the decisions... The moment we start replacing him, he`s not in charge anymore. And if he's not in charge, then someone else is... And I don't believe he's pleased at all with that." Will you explain this statement some more for me? I am not sure what you mean about God building a church without the hands of men? See what I mean? If men are involved, there will always be a question about humans overstepping their bounds. I think God chalks it up as a job hazard. He certainly is not threatened by anything that we do.
I agree, but if we REALLY get in the way and aren't willing to get out of the way, I think he says "fine, there's 6 more billion out there, I'll go find a people who are willing to follow me". Don't get me wrong, he is very patient and quick to forgive, but as it says "the eyes of the Lord look to a fro on the earth to show himself strong on behalf of those who's heart is perfect towards him". In other words God is looking for those who have a broken and a contrite heart towards him. As it says, he's not a respecter of persons; he'll take whoever! I think he does use men, yes, but does NOT force ANY man. Otherwise there woulnd't be any free will for that person. What I'm saying is this (to TRY and clarify my statement :) ) God is looking for a people who will surrender and completely let him use them whatever way he wants and be led wherever he likes. So he uses men, but only if they let him. If they don't let him, he uses what THEY decide to do for good anyways, because he is love. BUT it's better to be the person that let's him... If grace abounds in sin (God takes our wrongs and uses them for good), should we sin? No! Let's surrender and be in tune with our Master and Maker! That's what I'm trying to say.
And don't get me wrong, I'm not claiming to be of those that have made and I'm not claiming I've attained it. I hope to do so. This goes for everything I've said; I could end up far behind everyone and be the biggest failure. But it's like this (a kind of parable I guess), imagine there's this great job that is offered, and they will take anyone that is qualified and fit and proves themselves, whether it be 10 or 100 or 1000 people, if you're good for the job, they will take you. The more they can produce the better! It's the best job anyones heard of; great salary, advantages, and it's just right. Now, if you found out about it, wouldn't you apply AND tell all your friends, whether you got it or not? That is how I see my situation. I might not get the job, I might be the utter failure, but let me atleast tell my friends about it, maybe they can get it! And if they already have a good job, I'll tell them anyways, maybe it'll get them an even better one ;)
7. "Most of all, to me it is about coming out of a system to come into love. A system has no love and doesn't have the Spirit. A system works according to an agenda, but in the Spirit there is freedom. Instead of being directed by any thing we can see and touch and read, we need to be led directly and completely of God. Let God be our teacher, let God be our master! A system brings people together in a natural way, we are together because we all like bowling... We are together because we all play bingo... We are together because we all have the same beliefs... It`s all at the level of the soul. But we need to be brought together in the Spirit. It has to come from the Lord." I believe this is your genuine experience, but it is not mine. I believe Christianity is totally diverse - it was from the beginning and is today. People are led to church by God. Also, I believe God can speak clearly within structure and conformity. It certainly has helped me become more disciplined and as a paradoxical result, more free. Furthermore, I believe fully embracing my religious education and training by making my own personal expression of love for God is apart of my sanctification.
Okay :)
I definitely believe God can speak within structure and conformity. I believe he doesn't respond according to where we are physically but to our hearts. If they are right towards him, he responds. When we look to him in faith, he responds! Our God is amazing and so full of love... He doesn't stumble on what men do, on what physical eyes can see!
Once again, I appreciate you sharing your experience with me and allowing me to respond. Your post has given me greater insight into this issue. The bottomline is to go where you find Christ. I agree with you that love is the point, not empty ritual. For me, the ritual is a real expression of love for God and apart of my sanctification.
I appreciate you're sharing too, and have been blessed by this conversation.. God bless your heart brother! "Love is the point"! May you find Christ more and more deeply and may he transform you into his image! With much love in our Lord :)
blessings