Passive Aggressive ~ by ReverendRV * August 5
Psalm 55:21 KJV; The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords.
Our verse is a prime example of a behavior known as Passive Aggressiveness. Its definition is “Marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expressing negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way”. ~ Our words can be flattering on the outside but on the inside we’re ready to fight. Have you heard the example of a little child who is told to sit in his chair but doesn’t want to; he sits down but on the inside he’s standing up in spite of you. I’m sure we all know what Passive Aggressiveness is and admit we’ve all been there; but isn’t it the lesser of two evils? Maybe, but maybe not; what a man thinks about himself, that’s what he is. The Heart is more deceitful than anything and is desperately wicked; as we shall soon see. But as deceitful as the Heart is, it reveals the ‘true you’. The only thing your Heart can prove to you is what you are really like when you can’t have your way, and someone else’s way wins the day; then you become Passive Aggressive, right?
Is Passive Aggressiveness the same as Lying on the inside? Have you been told to do something and did it; but begrudgingly? What are you doing in your heart that you want to do in real life, but can’t? Have you ever committed Adultery? Jesus said that if you have looked at a woman Lustfully, you’ve committed Adultery with her in your Heart; that’s Passive Aggressive molestation! Have you ever Hated anyone? Jesus said if you’ve Hated your brother, you’ve Murdered him in your Heart. Lying, Adultery and Murder are but three of the Ten Commandments, do we need to go on? If God judged by his standard, would you be innocent or guilty? Would you go to Heaven; or will you go to Hell?
God Saves Sinners! For God so Loves the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting Life instead. Jesus Christ is God Incarnate and he lived a Holy life which pleased God his Father, by keeping the Ten Commandments his whole life. He paid the price that our Sin deserves by dying on the Cross of Rome, and he arose from the grave for all who believe. We’re Saved by the Grace, Mercy and Forgiveness of God through our Faith in the risen Christ, without our Works lest we boast. Repent of your Sins, Confess Jesus Christ as your Lord God; and start going to a Bible believing Church. ~ Christians can be Passive Aggressive without even knowing it. If a Christian is inactive in supporting the spreading of the Gospel, God looks at it as if we’re proactively scattering Lost Souls; “Get out of my way, I’m going to Church!”. The Lost are like cordwood which the Devil stacks by the fires of Hell; our inactivity means we proactively stack the Devil’s cordwood for him! ~ Will you remain Passive Aggressive toward God now that you know this?
Matthew 12:30 NIV; "Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.