I found it interesting myself. They allow up to three marriages. . . reluctantly. Their reason:Hi Giuliano,
Can you tell me what that is ? Curious :)
Peace!
As sacrament, marriage is not a magical act, but a gift of grace. The partners, being humans, may have made a mistake in soliciting the grace of marriage when they were not ready for it; or they may prove to be unable to make this grace grow to maturity. In those cases, the Church may admit the fact that the grace was not “received,” tolerate separation and allow remarriage. But, of course, she never encourages any remarriage—we have seen that even in the case of widowers—because of the eternal character of the marriage bond; but only tolerates it when, in concrete cases, it appears as the best solution for a given individual.
I wonder if God is doing the joining, who can tell if two people have been joined by God. If two people fight all the time after getting married, can we believe the two were made one by God? So I agree with the Orthodox that people completely unable to love each other so they could made one by God could believe they were married when really they were married only in secular terms. An Orthodox priest explained it to me something like this, "One divorce is bad enough. People should learn from their mistakes, so maybe a second marriage will work out. Two divorces is even worse; and if you didn't learn your lesson after two divorces and three wives, you probably wouldn't learn however many times you got married, so don't expect any more divorces."
What if a woman had loose morals and her husband thought he was marrying a virgin only to find out after the ceremony she wasn't? Is any contract valid if one of the parties used deceit? What if a man married a woman only for her looks and she married him because he lied and said he loved her? Would God join a couple when one was lying? Perhaps not -- perhaps the marriage existed in secular terms only -- it never happened spiritually. The Catholic Church already admits that fraudulent marriages never existed, so an annulment is possible.
It seems similar to the question about people who lie to a priest. A priest may think people have been absolved of their sins, but would they be if they lied? No, such a lie is a mortal sin, is it not?
I think maybe the solution to the problem Pope Francis and the Church face may be to clarify the grounds for annulment.