OK...so it isn’t what I say, as much as the way I say it? Is that what I am understanding here?
My Aussie directness is what you are having trouble with.....for this I can only apologise.
I would see such questioning as a challenge, not an insult. I relish a challenge. It is not intended to be mean spirited as you seem to see it. I am challenging your beliefs.....not insulting you personally.
Are "confidence and truthfulness" unnecessary qualities for a Christian????
Cultural differences often happen between Aussies and Yanks....as I have admitted, many Americans find us rude, but all we are is direct and truthful. We are not used to tip-toeing around people’s fragile sensibilities. It’s not who we are. But all I can do is try not to offend you as I seem to be doing on a regular basis, because you take everything so personally.
Aussie humor is by nature a little confronting and sometimes sarcastic to some people, its just the "larrikin" in us (Google it)....but confidence and truthfulness will always be part of my speech......OK?
This just sounds like an apology for (hiding behind) your culture that you backpedal on by suggesting "people's fragile sensibilities" are really the problem. It's all good because you're just being confident and truthful (I really like that little straw man rhetorical question, btw--
Are "confidence and truthfulness" unnecessary qualities for a Christian????). But, really, there's no need to dodge my direct (we can do it, too) question. Either you see patronizing, mockery, and/or insults in your comment or you don't. If you don't, that's fine. I just thought you'd want to know how you came across, just like you wanted me to know about the brazen serpent idol.
When I was in the Air Force in the early '80s, I went to a joint military training station for my technical school. In our barracks building, we had a detachment of about 25 Australian troops. I found them all to be very respectful and polite. I've also found a lot of Americans to be quite rude and antagonistic.
Much more so than I would attribute to your comment. :)
And by the way, I was taught from childhood that forgiveness is not an event--it's an attitude. So if there was anything to forgive, it was instantly at the bottom of the ocean, as far as I'm concerned. You're the one who blew this up all out of proportion. All I said was I was glad to have been of service to your amusement. So you can stop portraying me as ultrasensitive anytime you like--or not--your choice. I'm long past over it. I'm just replying to your unceasing objections to my short, plain statement about my perception of your behavior. If you check my posting history, you'll see that I readily forgive but never excuse ill behavior, especially in Christians, who ought to know better.
Are "kindness and mildness"
unnecessary qualities for a Christian???? (It's just a ridiculous question, isn't it?)
We're real good as far as I'm concerned, but I'm not gonna rubber stamp your manners. But, hey, I'm nobody, anyway. :);):cool:
