Now THIS is some statement that could be discussed, LOL!
Controversial statements are fun on a Forum.

See...cuz there would be those that could say they
are in control of their destiny...in fact, isn't that what
part of this life is all about...
realizing who we are, and what kind of amazing power we have...I mean, we are capable of laying down the
tracks for our life (picture a train)...to then be able to go where we want.
We can have depressing thoughts that lead to a mess of a life...or have constructive wonderful thoughts leading to our Goal. No?
Belief is the power we were given...that is what 'rules', so to speak, that I have found.
Another controversial statement is 'only He' rules...does 'He rule'? Cuz, with respect, I'm no puppet.
Now, when one
invites, recognizes, acknowledges, desires God daily to lead them thru their life...it has been
my profound experience He
does guide me....to the extent that I have been late and lost following written directions
far outside my city...and He will infuse my mind with 'turn left' (when right is written ) and there is the building!
Give Jesus the wheel....but, we have to deliberately ask and then
allow the direction...it is not 'ruling', tho.
What an interesting topic, my friend. :)
There is a Brilliant System set up...sow and reap, what goes around comes around , karma, by whatever name.
God is not 'ruling' us or the situation, that I can see...the System of Cause and Effect takes over; if George is gonna leave
a cigar on a wood counter in a Susan's wood cabin...it will burn down.
God did nothing.
Oh the 100s of example we all could give. God is not mysterious to ME!
He is like clockwork, very simple, very clear, His System is very predictable, to me.
Whether I have an accident in an intersection or I do not...the Power of Intention is a beautiful thing...God doesn't 'rule' that.
My take, my input.