Edited title: prayer for God to send me the right boyfriend!

[thelord's_pearl]

I am going to express my feelings. I am feeling sad and down right now. I hope I will feel that God appreciates and finds me worthy of getting a boyfriend as soon as possible who is the right one for me, not just anyone of course. I am also feeling lonely that my online friends have not really been able to be there for me all the time and I haven't felt it was going in the direction where I feel that the friend I have available is being a really good friend or knows how to be one. I do trust the friend but I haven't built enough trust to fully trust the person. Prayers would be appreciated

 

[TheOneHeLoves]

I am going to express my feelings. I am feeling sad and down right now. I hope I will feel that God appreciates and finds me worthy of getting a boyfriend as soon as possible who is the right one for me, not just anyone of course. I am also feeling lonely that my online friends have not really been able to be there for me all the time and I haven't felt it was going in the direction where I feel that the friend I have available is being a really good friend or knows how to be one. I do trust the friend but I haven't built enough trust to fully trust the person. Prayers would be appreciated

I believe your perspective is wrong. None of us are worthy of God's blessing. He is great and good to bless us but whether or not we have a mate is not due to our worth or love but His plan and mission for us as individuals.

Instead of focusing on what you want, focus on who He is and who and what His will is for you. I pray that you would look to see where He has you and what He desires for you.

 

[thelord's_pearl]

I believe your perspective is wrong. None of us are worthy of God's blessing. He is great and good to bless us but whether or not we have a mate is not due to our worth or love but His plan and mission for us as individuals.

Instead of focusing on what you want, focus on who He is and who and what His will is for you. I pray that you would look to see where He has you and what He desires for you.

It seems like I disagree. Without going into detail, I wish I would feel God's appreciation of me in having a boyfriend and the right one. As well, my online friendships are disappearing, either that or it's not well. I would like prayers. Thanks a lot.

 

[thelord's_pearl]

can someone please pray a really good and comforting prayer for me on my prayer request? I have a lot to offer but am very lonely and down, thank you. if god will bring compatible divine connections I need, that'll make me really happy, sometimes it seems like others get good things even though I deserved it more but not me, not like that and not enough. I got something that seemed good but was actually bad for me, etc

 

[thelord's_pearl]

I feel sad, very down and sad. My life is really sad and I feel so humiliated. I could be a bad girl/lady and get some advantages out of it but I humiliate myself. I thought humble yourself in the sight of the lord and he will lift you up? I thought parable of the persistent widow? I thought if you ask for a fish he will not give you a stone? but it's always, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, never now.

 

[Debp]

I feel sad, very down and sad. My life is really sad and I feel so humiliated. I could be a bad girl/lady and get some advantages out of it but I humiliate myself. I thought humble yourself in the sight of the lord and he will lift you up? I thought parable of the persistent widow? I thought if you ask for a fish he will not give you a stone? but it's always, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, never now.

I've always heard that when one is not looking for a boyfriend or mate...that is when he or she will come along.

Try to get your eyes off of this situation and maybe try to do some volunteering or something to help others. Then someone might notice you and want to be your friend because your eyes are on other things, not on yourself so much.

Just some thoughts...

 

[Raccoon1010]

I've always heard that when one is not looking for a boyfriend or mate...that is when he or she will come along.

Try to get your eyes off of this situation and maybe try to do some volunteering or something to help others. Then someone might notice you and want to be your friend because your eyes are on other things, not on yourself so much.

Just some thoughts...

Good point @Debp! That concept is also good in other areas where someone is extending themselves into things they want. I will pray that she finds someone nice and Christian as that might feel happy for her too.

 

[thelord's_pearl]

thanks for the prayers, much appreciated. I feel guilty that I've said wrong things about God. Sometimes you get so into what you want that you think narrowly, sorry about that. I have not been being a good accountable sister in Christ!

 

[Debp]

I feel guilty that I've said wrong things about God. Sometimes you get so into what you want that you think narrowly, sorry about that.

The Lord knows our weaknesses and still loves us. We don't have to "measure up" to be loved by Him.