I've heard various patterns for how God work described before. I've never seen these patterns in my own life, though I have seen God do a variety of works in me, and in some unusual and sometimes spectacular ways. But it never seems to fit the patterns which other people say God uses. As I look back over my life I seem to see what appears as His "Grand Scheme" for me, but I'm still focusing in on it naturally!As are many things in scripture, the physical is often an analogy of the spiritual. When we read that God has hands, or that He is like a mother hen spreading her wings, we understand what is meant.
The three heavens, is I believe, referring to the three spiritual states that man can inhabit on this earth. The early church taught this and it was sometimes called the Via Triplex in the west - the three ways.
The first way - the way of Purification, meant the time in the believers life where he is led into a time of severe testing, after the initial heavenly place of being converted out of the world, whereby the presence of God is lost (see Job) and the man sees destruction to the things that he has previously held in esteem. These things have been keeping him from complete submission to God so they have to go.
Of course, this only is found where a man longs for deep fellowship with God despite his idols and hungers and thirsts for this.
Then comes the second heaven whereby the man is Illuminated and understands what he has been through and thanks God for it and the release from deliberate sin which he has been blessed with. He sees the scriptures in a new way and the reason for trials in order to grow spiritually. However, he still seeks to be freed from the 'sin that entangles' him.
The third heaven is the place of righteousness, and we can only speak of it with reverence and respect as it is holy ground and those that oppose it are heaping coals on their heads.
But I see nothing so cut and dried as all that. I think the reality can be a lot more messy, steps forwards and backward, though always forward from God's perspective for His children.
As for various stages like you are describing, I think we are more in a flow of maturing in a variety of ways.
I'm all about using Scripture to interpret Scripture, and so that's where I see what I wrote in the OP. If there is anything Biblical to define this for us, that is it, I think.
Much love!