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The Lord specifically chose Paul to be the apostle to the Gentiles to show that salvation is offered to all people.

True.

In fact, if the reader studies, Acts 10, you'll find that the one whom the "cult of the virgin" claims is the ROCK that the Church is built on, and is their 1st POPE...........- Peter,....... didnt know that Gentiles could be saved... And that is about 10 yrs, after Jesus is back in Heaven.

When did Peter learn the GOSPEL.. ?

Acts 15, when He met PAUL.
 
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I’m not talking about that , whatever Jesus did it was the right thing to do.

What does Jesus teach about throwing insults at each other, accusing the brethren of all sorts of un- truths about another’s character?
In my opinion, from observation, it often seems to be a self-protective response. Protecting some area of insecurity or fear or pride, etc.....causes people to take offense too easily and get aggressive and go on the offence. An area of the soul that hasn't yet opened up to the Lord for that very reason of self-protection and self-preservation.

The irony is that there is nothing to fear in opening ourselves up to the light of the Lord......because He isn't out to hurt us, but rather heal. So we really are believing a lie....a stronghold and snare that needs to be taken down to let the truth in.....truth that sets us free.
 

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In my opinion, from observation, it often seems to be a self-protective response. Protecting some area of insecurity or fear or pride, etc.....causes people to take offense too easily and get aggressive and go on the offence. An area of the soul that hasn't yet opened up to the Lord for that very reason of self-protection and self-preservation.

The irony is that there is nothing to fear in opening ourselves up to the light of the Lord......because He isn't out to hurt us, but rather heal. So we really are believing a lie....a stronghold and snare that needs to be taken down to let the truth in.....truth that sets us free.
Brilliant post Sis, imo.

Full of insight...thank you!
 
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Ok, I appreciate your input and seeing it from another perspective.

How can I grow as a person or in Christ, if I take what some people/ members say to me personally?

Why would I take what they say to me personally as in negative/ destructive on board into my heart/ spirit?

What would happen if one did that to a child growing up....do you think they could end up with mental health problems ?

Why is there so much mental health problems in the world?

If one’s parents kept telling their daughter/ son that they were thick....didn’t you believe what your parents said to you growing up? I did.
1. I think in general we should be aware that it is easy to misunderstand either the content or the intent of what others say on forums especially.

2. That part of the carnal nature that takes offense too easily and wants to react needs to die out or be healed.

3. Self-awareness is a good start.......it's hard to repent or seek God's help with problems we aren't aware we have. So we need to allow (if that's the right word) the Lord to shine His light or put His finger on whatever our issue happens to be.
 
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1. I think in general we should be aware that it is easy to misunderstand either the content or the intent of what others say on forums especially.

2. That part of the carnal nature that takes offense too easily and wants to react needs to die out or be healed.

3. Self-awareness is a good start.......it's hard to repent or seek God's help with problems we aren't aware we have. So we need to allow (if that's the right word) the Lord to shine His light or put His finger on whatever our issue happens to be.
Amen!...Sis!..well said.imo.

I call it our old mindset.thats what needs renewing..we need the mind of Christ.
 
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Is that fair to accuse and not show it?
Im not sure exactly what you mean by this or what you are trying to accomplish.

My intention was to apologize to Behold for my actions, not accuse him of anything. I said Jesus told us to respond with cursing with blessing. I said I failed to do this by being sarcastic and mocking his post to another user. I removed that podt.

His response was to say Im accusing him of cursing me.

Im not sure where to go from there. I was focused on the sorry part, not his actions.

I hope you understand where Im coming from. I dont see a need to quote him because I only brought it up to apologize for my response to it, not to comment on his words.

I hope that's clear. In any case, I hope God blesses you as well and that you have a good day.
 
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I never wanted to accuse you in this thread. I only wanted to apologize for my response to the quote. That is why Im not posting it.
Congratulations on taking the high road!! Just to say, I see that you are apologizing for your own actions while not accusing others. I wish they could see that also!

Much love!
 
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When we start hurling insults at each other, I believe we have all done it.

Accusations flying around about our character....I mean I’ve been accused of being a devil worshipper....I’m sure I’ve accused others also....why do we do it?

Does it stem from childhood ,is it a flesh pattern that we learnt from our human parents?

It’s certainly not of the Lord is it?
Jesus warned us not to insult people. You don't want to insult someone who is better at it than you.
 
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The NT denies what you said,

The NT says that God gives.. "Pastors, Apostles, Evangelists, Teachers, and Prophets"....for the "Perfecting of the Saints'.
You omitted all that she said so to make your point. In doing so you actually reiterated what she posted when you said, God gives....

The Reason people go to Church is to learn, is to be perfected, in their walk with God... also regarding their Faith.

The reason people should come to Forums, is for the same reason, but, Forums, are dangerous, because they are not created , in most cases, to Stop harmful Theology.....they instead enlist it and then the damage is then done as the harmful theology is allowed to harm real believers.

Also, the way you perfect a Christian, is to teach them the TRUTH, and help them out of deception.

Now, there are some who say.....that a "Catholic, or a Mormon, or a JW,, are not "really Christians"...

But, the truth is...some of them may be born again, yet they are DECEIVED by their CULT.

That is not "of God", and they need Help.

A Calvinist is the same situation.
I pray God sees fit to heal you of your fixation with Calvinism.
 
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Jesus warned us not to insult people. You don't want to insult someone who are better at it than you.

With face-to-face communication it has all of the feedback loops operating as we learn during our conversation.
With ear-to-ear communication the feedback loops not operating are visual and environmental indicators.
With written communication the process of communicating with each other is much slower. There are no visual feedback loops, or environmental factors or verbal indicators operating from which to learn to help each other in the communication process. What becomes important is the Metadata that is being used as the words are composed on a page. Hopefully the same Metadata reference is being used.

If people are not prepared to learn about each other as they communicate with each other, then the communication process will break down and falter.

Good communication only happens when the receiver of the message is able to come to the same understanding from the words being transmitted of the message that the sender intended to be transmitted. If the recipient of a message does not come to the same understanding as the transmitter intended to be contained within their message, then the communication process breaks down and harsh words may result.

On an internet forum it can take years for members to become personal with each other and often by then the people have also moved on.

Shalom
 
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You omitted all that she said so to make your point. In doing so you actually reiterated what she posted when you said, God gives....

She posted that Believers are not taught by other believers.
So, i posted Paul's verse that shows you the 5 types of anointed offices that God "calls", as a Minister, so that the body of Christ """"(each believer can be perfected."""' as Paul teaches.

You dont have to like it.
You dont have to believe it.
She denies it.

I pray God sees fit to heal you of your fixation with Calvinism.

Pray instead that this person you are defending will respect my request, that i requested, weeks ago....multiple times... which is that she stop posting..

= "i was born again before i believed"......another 150 times on my Threads.

Ive only asked her to stop doing that on my Threads that are not discussing her CALVINISM... and this 95% of them, @BlessedPeace ....and she told me that God told her to keep posting this over and over.

He didnt.
 
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Ritajanice

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Saving faith is distinct from every works-righteous system because it isn’t the result of human effort. In the same way that repentance is granted by God (Acts 11:18; 2 Tim. 2:25), faith is also a supernatural gift of God. Ephesians 2:8–9 affirms this: “By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.”

Our response in salvation is faith, but even that is “not of [ourselves], it is the gift of God.” Faith is nothing that we do in our own power or by our own resources. In the first place, we do not have adequate power or resources. Moreover, God would not want us to rely on them even if we had them. Otherwise salvation would be in part by our own works, and we would have some ground to boast in ourselves. Paul’s emphasis in Ephesians 2:8 is that even faith does not come from us apart from God’s giving it. Human effort has nothing to do with it (cf.Romans 3:20; Galatians 2:16), and thus no one should boast, as if he contributed any part.

Spiritually dead, we were helpless until God intervened to quicken us: “Even when we were dead in our transgressions, [God] made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)” (Ephesians 2:5). Faith is an integral part of the gift His grace bestowed on us.


Born Again of incorruptible seed that liveth and endureth forever.....

Born Again in my spirit by Gods Living witness His Holy Spirit.....a Living spiritual birth by Gods mighty power via His Living Spirit.

Praise Him for that gift of Faith, that is more precious than anything.....to know God in our spirit and grow in Christ Spirit....mind Blowing!!

To grow in Jesus grace, bear His fruit,is the biggest Honour we can receive....all by His power within our spirit/heart.....it can’t be stopped...as we were chosen and predestined to become Born Again.

Praise His Holy Name!...we are in this fallen world but we don’t belong to it.

I pray that all come to Jesus by the power of Gods Living witness His Holy Spirit....he wants none to perish.
 
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Saving faith is distinct from every works-righteous system because it isn’t the result of human effort.

"Faith in Christ" is the "Faith that is counted by God", , which is the faith that comes from you, the BELIEVER.

God requires this of us, so that by this Faith that we Give God, that is our free will, God will accept OUR Faith, to then Justify us..

This is "Justification by Faith".

Or "Even as Abram BELIEVED God, and it was counted"

What was counted"?

"Abram Believed"..... , and God didnt do that for Him, as otherwise, it would be God accepting His own faith., and that does not happen.

YOU are the Believer, or the UNbeliever..., not God.

See, when YOU die and meet God, you will meet Him as Judge or Father... and that is based on what YOU Decided to do with Jesus...while you were alive.... and that is not what God made you do with Him, as deceived Calvinism teaches.