Sorry for my blanket criticism. (based on some BAD experiences) Apologies.Lol....No Steven, I am not one of those women. If you look back thru my previous posts, you will see that I apologize when I am wrong and will let you know if you "win".
Agree.Throughout the NT there are MULTIPLE examples/events of baptisms. Some done in private, some done in public. Some done with large crowds, some done with only the family present. It does not say fully immersed or just partially immersed. It doesn't say only adults, no children allowed. There are no clear instructions on how to conduct a baptism. There is not a single word or term that can be used to describe the act of baptism. If there were I am sure men would use it.
In reference to baptism we may have a different definition of "public".
I understand where the original poster that brought this up was coming from. (don't remember who)
Here's the Protestant view. (evangelical/fundamentalist)
Baptism is viewed as a public confession of faith. Even if the baptism is done indoors in a church.
The public is invited to witness the baptism. Usually family members that attend (or don't attend) elsewhere.
The view is that a religious ceremony is an outward (public) demonstration of an inward reality.
This is why we dedicate babies and baptize "believers". It involves a conscious confession of faith from the one being baptized.
I don't personally have anything against infant baptism, but many Protestants do. As you probably know.