Salvation is the work of God...
It certainly is. One might wonder why someone who acknowledges this would spend so much time refuting it (trying to, at least).
Nope. It is the work of God in man. And, "He who (begins) a good work in (man) will bring it to completion at the day of Christ" (Philippians 1:6). Jesus Christ, even in His hypostatically unified state, was never in need of salvation. He even said, He is the way, the truth, and the life. Right? Surely you would agree with that. No? You acknowledged that before, right?
...to exalt the Son above all things.
Christ was always and will always be preeminent in all things (Colossians 1). All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made (John 1). And from Him and through Him and to Him are all things (Romans 11). I'm... pretty sure... you acknowledged this before. So He was never in need of exaltation, except to say that in relation to the human state/nature He took on, for man's sake.
Yes, "(t)herefore God has highly exalted Him..." (from His human state after His "having humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross") "...and bestowed on him the name that is above every name..." for sure. Even Christ prayed to the Father to glorify Him in the Father's own presence with the glory that He (Christ) had with Him (the Father) before the world existed (John 17:5)... from all eternity. This passage from Philippians 2 also gives the simple reason why God does anything and everything He does, which is to bring glory to Himself ("...to the glory of God the Father"; v.11).
Any man can avail themselves of the message of the Gospel.
Yes, everyone is eligible, but still, God has mercy on whom He will have mercy, and compassion on whom He will have compassion. The strong implication is that He will not have mercy on compassion for... at least some. Those who will "avail themselves of the Gospel" are those who will call upon the name of the Lord, and those who do call upon the name of the Lord are those whom the Lord calls... will only do so ~ of their own free will and accord ~
because the Lord calls them. Everyone loves that word 'whosoever' from John 3:16 and 'everyone' from Romans 10:13. What many don't realize is that both John and Paul are drawing from what the prophet Joel writes in Joel 2:32:
"And it shall come to pass that everyone who calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved. For in Mount Zion and in Jerusalem there shall be those who escape, as the LORD has said, and among the survivors shall be those whom the LORD calls."
Again, the ones who willingly and freely call on the name of the LORD shall be saved. But the ones who do this are the ones whom the Lord calls... they will do so because the Lord has called them. And this is precisely what Jesus says, in effect, in John 10. To the unbelieving Jews, He says:
"...you do not believe because you are not among my sheep. My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of My hand. My Father, Who has given them to Me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand. I and the Father are one" (John 10:26-30).
Faith is relying upon the work of another. Jesus Christ for redemption.
Ah, well, the Bible defines faith for us... "the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." Do we assure ourselves? If so, how can we be truly assured? We can't. No, God is the source of this assurance we receive. But yes, Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Yeah, I was right. I didn't really want to hear what you thought salvation really meant. :) I knew there would be... issues. :) But I did like talking about what it really is... :)
Grace and peace to you.