She divorced me because I couldn't make her happy. I wanted no part of the divorce, but for the sake of my kids had to participate to be sure that I got my children fairly.
This is where you and I will probably not agree, but the ex-wife and I got married due to being coerced into it. Her pastor, a Pentecostal pastor coerced us by threatening us. Saying that God would punish us if we didn't get married. No, we weren't sleeping together. I was also coming back to God after leaving the Catholic church when I was a teen. So, I wasn't sure what was going on.
We ignored the warning signs that we weren't compatible. There were red flags all over the place. We even told him of these red flags, and he didn't listen and doubled down.
We may have been married, but it was not God's doing. I believe by prayer that I can remarry again.
If she left you because she Claimed you didnt make her happy .
I suspect there might be another involved . of couse I AM not gonna say that is TRUTH .
Well coerscion or not you got married .
I mean if some pentcostal preacher had told me I HAD to marry etc
I had said NO I DONT . not if i had not slept with her and did not love her .
Now you married so coerscion dont count .
what i want you to know is
IS she a true believer . first lets examine that .
THEN also did she cheat on you .
Now i know you may have found what and who you beleive is your lifes lady
But i warn you , DO NOT marry until you know and have the right answers .
DID your wife cheat on you .
IS she an unbeliever. because if not
i want you to take a good long look into this other ladies face , the one you thinking about marrying .
And think real hard and real long .
DO I WANT THIS LADY IN ADULTERY , do i really want to put her life in danger . OR DO I LOVE her so much
i am willing to let her go because it is what is best for her.
YOU need to make darn sure you are able to remarry or its naught but adultery you walk right into
and YOU PUT this other lovely lady RIGHT IN ADULTERY with ya . perhaps we need to love others morethan our selves .
If you love this lady then you must do what is best for her
and above that , IF LOVE THE LORD GOD above all , WELL you gotta do what HE says . just trying to help .