Why did God give you a husband?

[quietthinker]

"I heard you say it."
"No you didn't."
"Yes I did."
"I didn't say that."
"Liar."

Haha.....did Jack forget to sign his name?

 

[Rita]

My wife and I figured out that one of the schemes had to do with altering our "hearing".
Many couples will get into these "You said...", "No I didn't." arguments.
"That's what you said, I heard you say it. (not necessarily) Beware. (deaf and dumb spirits)

We clarify what we heard by saying, "Here's what I heard you say... is that correct?"
Give your partner the opportunity to clarify. Or if you prefer...

"I heard you say it."
"No you didn't."
"Yes I did."
"I didn't say that."
"Liar."

(the enemy is rolling on the floor laughing)

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Yes, I agree x
I know with other relationships ( thinking back to when my children were teenagers ) having the last word ……that Didn’t happen in my marriage as my husband would always say what he thought I wanted to hear ( but they were just empty words as he never meant them ) He placated me.
He would also manipulate , he knew I would say sorry in order to not rock the boat. - I didn’t see that until my marriage ended and he did it with his girlfriend when he was round my house visiting our children. I actually saw his game playing for the first time ( a light bulb moment )
A good relationship needs to be transparent

 

[St. SteVen]

A good relationship needs to be transparent

That's key.

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[Ritajanice]

That's key.

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Amen to you both...wise and true words....