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Mary had sex with Joseph after Jesus was born.

Matthew 1:25
And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name Jesus.

The context of Matt. 1:25 is Joseph's accepting as his spouse the virgin who conceived the Savior of mankind by the Holy Spirit. The gospel writer concludes the passage by stating that Joseph didn't have intercourse with Mary until Jesus's birth, to dispel any belief that he was the father. In other words, since the gospel writer's intent at the end was to show what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, so as to dispel any belief that Jesus was conceived by him, and not begotten by the Holy Spirit, they stated he remained chaste until Jesus's birth. Why would implying Joseph had or didn't have intercourse with Mary after Jesus's birth be relevant, when it's only about Jesus's paternal origin? It's not relevant, which is another reason why the definition of "until" that you're applying doesn't fit here, but rather "up to the time that," because it informs us what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, not what occurred after that point. The importance of Matt. 1:20-25 is that it primarily pertains to the messianic prophecy, not the sexual relationship, or lack thereof, between Joseph and Mary.

Matthew 13:54-56​

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54 And when he was come into his own country, he taught them in their synagogue, insomuch that they were astonished, and said, Whence hath this man this wisdom, and these mighty works?
55 Is not this the carpenter's son? is not his mother called Mary? and his brethren, James, and Joses, and Simon, and Judas?
56 And his sisters, are they not all with us? Whence then hath this man all these things?

This is absolute proof of Mary having at least seven children...

The words "brother" and "sister" have multiple definitions, e.g., "fellow-countryman," "disciple/follower," "one of the same faith," and "kinsman," etc. The context of Matt. 13:55-56/Mk. 6:3-4 does show the meaning "kinsman," e.g., sibling, cousin, nephew, uncle, etc., applies to Jesus's brothers Joseph, Simon, James, Judas (Jude/Thaddeus), and unnamed sisters. However, information needed to determine the type of kinship between Jesus and His kinsmen is lacking in those same verses and others.

In the opening post, I've provided evidence that confirms Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were Jesus's brothers, as in kinsmen, and shows that the type of kinship between them and Jesus was that of cousins, not siblings as you believe. This was accomplished primarily by identifying James.
 
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The context of Matt. 1:25 is Joseph's accepting as his spouse the virgin who conceived the Savior of mankind by the Holy Spirit. The gospel writer concludes the passage by stating that Joseph didn't have intercourse with Mary until Jesus's birth, to dispel any belief that he was the father. Therefore, the meaning of the word "until" that applies in "And he knew her not until she brought forth her firstborn son" is "up to the time that," because it only informs us what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, not what occurred after that point. For reasons explained, the word "until" in Matt. 1:25 doesn't prove Joseph and Mary had or didn't have intercourse or that they had or didn't have children after Jesus's birth. The importance of Matt. 1:20-25 is that it primarily pertains to the messianic prophecy, not the sexual relationship, or lack thereof, between Joseph and Mary.



The words "brother" and "sister" have multiple meanings, e.g., fellow-countryman, disciple/follower, one of the same faith, and "kin," etc. The context of Matt. 13:55-56/Mk. 6:3-4 does show the meaning "kin," e.g., sibling, cousin, uncle, etc., applies to Jesus's brothers Joseph, Simon, James, Judas (Jude/Thaddeus), and unnamed sisters. However, information that can help determine the specific type of kinship between Jesus and those kinsmen and kinswomen of His is lacking in those same verses.

In the opening post, I've provided evidence that confirms Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were Jesus's brothers, as in "kin," and shows that the type of kinship between them and Jesus was that of cousins, not siblings as you believe. This was accomplished primarily by identifying James.
You've provided zero "evidence ". The clear words of scripture refutes your ridiculous assertions.
 

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You've provided zero "evidence ". The clear words of scripture refutes your ridiculous assertions.

If that were true, you should've been able to refute my arguments in post #63 and the opening post, but you didn't even attempt, rather bowed out.
 

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The RCC believes Mary was allegedly given a free life (unable to sin) though born of two sinful parents, while Jesus was allegedly born of two sinless parents, but was capable of sin.

RCC dogma is a right mess and pity those innocent folk who have drunken of her wine.

F2F
I think they teach that Mary also was immaculately conceived
 
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The scriptures do a better job than I can refuting nonsense.

That's true, the scriptures help refute the nonsense that Jesus's kinsmen Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were His siblings.
 

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You have not proven anything remotely suggesting that the ones mentioned in Matt 12:55-56 were cousins.

If that were true, you should've been able to refute my arguments in the opening post and post #65. Do you bow out?
 

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If that were true, you should've been able to refute my arguments in the opening post and post #65. Do you bow out?
I think I asked before.
How do we authenticate your extra-biblical evidence? It seems to be in conflict with a plain reading of the scriptures.
All we get from you biblically is your workarounds based on Catholic presumptions. Which you claim as the "truth".

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That's true, the scriptures help refute the nonsense that Jesus's kinsmen Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were His siblings.
Kind of like healthcare. A problem that is "treatable" but not "curable". ???
You wrote, "the scriptures help refute..." With the help of a presumption wrench? (or hammer) - LOL

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You've provided zero "evidence ". The clear words of scripture refutes your ridiculous assertions.
To be fair, evidence from early church writings were provided.
Just not sure we can verify the credibility of them.

But when they attempt to apply them to the scriptures they have to do a lot of
workaround twisting to make it prove their point. Seems VERY suspicious.
Especially when presented as the "truth". ???


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The context of Matt. 1:25 is Joseph's accepting as his spouse the virgin who conceived the Savior of mankind by the Holy Spirit. The gospel writer concludes the passage by stating that Joseph didn't have intercourse with Mary until Jesus's birth, to dispel any belief that he was the father. Therefore, the meaning of the word "until" that applies in "And he knew her not until she brought forth her firstborn son" is "up to the time that," because it only informs us what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, not what occurred after that point. For reasons explained, the word "until" in Matt. 1:25 doesn't prove Joseph and Mary had or didn't have intercourse or that they had or didn't have children after Jesus's birth. The importance of Matt. 1:20-25 is that it primarily pertains to the messianic prophecy, not the sexual relationship, or lack thereof, between Joseph and Mary.
Faulty logic on you rpart. In modern English it would day: And joseph did not have sex with Mary until after Jesus was born. That declares he had sex afterwards and that is because of the "until" god is not sloppy. If He wanted to state Mary remained a virgin He would not have included "until" which describes how long he abstained.
The words "brother" and "sister" have multiple meanings, e.g., fellow-countryman, disciple/follower, one of the same faith, and "kin," etc. The context of Matt. 13:55-56/Mk. 6:3-4 does show the meaning "kin," e.g., sibling, cousin, uncle, etc., applies to Jesus's brothers Joseph, Simon, James, Judas (Jude/Thaddeus), and unnamed sisters. However, information that can help determine the specific type of kinship between Jesus and those kinsmen and kinswomen of His is lacking in those same verses.

In the opening post, I've provided evidence that confirms Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were Jesus's brothers, as in "kin," and shows that the type of kinship between them and Jesus was that of cousins, not siblings as you believe. This was accomplished primarily by identifying James.
Yes they do and you are ignoring the context in which this was spoken. It was the skeptics speaking. There was a crowd. So it would not mean fellow country men- for then they would have meant the whole crowd of Jews!

Sorry but only in rare cases is cousin th intended meaning, especially not here. There were sufficient greek words to designate them as cousins. Once again god is not sloppy.

The evidence you provided was that of those several centuries removed! And it was their opinions not facts. Lacking much stronger evidence, and using grammar as God intended, we must and do remain with the primary meaning of the word. the context and whole counsel of SCripture gives no other warrant.

Elizabeth in Luke 1 is called a syngenes which means kin apart from immediate family. sisters is adelphe which is the feminie of adelphi
Cousin spedcifically is anepsios.

So though some ancient father may agree with the Catholic position, the massive weight of INspired Scripture is completely against Mary ever virgin.
 

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Faulty logic on you rpart. In modern English it would day: And joseph did not have sex with Mary until after Jesus was born. That declares he had sex afterwards and that is because of the "until" god is not sloppy. If He wanted to state Mary remained a virgin He would not have included "until" which describes how long he abstained.

Yes they do and you are ignoring the context in which this was spoken. It was the skeptics speaking. There was a crowd. So it would not mean fellow country men- for then they would have meant the whole crowd of Jews!

Sorry but only in rare cases is cousin th intended meaning, especially not here. There were sufficient greek words to designate them as cousins. Once again god is not sloppy.

The evidence you provided was that of those several centuries removed! And it was their opinions not facts. Lacking much stronger evidence, and using grammar as God intended, we must and do remain with the primary meaning of the word. the context and whole counsel of SCripture gives no other warrant.

Elizabeth in Luke 1 is called a syngenes which means kin apart from immediate family. sisters is adelphe which is the feminie of adelphi
Cousin spedcifically is anepsios.

So though some ancient father may agree with the Catholic position, the massive weight of INspired Scripture is completely against Mary ever virgin.
They refute the “until” argument by saying that in the Old Testament it says David’s wife Michal had no children “until “ she died. Get ready, that argument is coming
 
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They refute the “until” argument by saying that in the Old Testament it say David’s wife Mikal had no children “until “ she died. Get ready, that argument is coming
That's right up there with the "all" doesn't mean "all" argument. - LOL
 
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They refute the “until” argument by saying that in the Old Testament it says David’s wife Michal had no children “until “ she died. Get ready, that argument is coming
Now you are going to Hebrew to compare it to Greek and mix in english. different words with different meanings. It takes a minute to find that out.

The Hebrew is defined as unto. It is the word "ad" And ion the context it shows she was childless to her death.

Greek is "eos" =

STRONGS G2193:
ἕως, a particle marking a limit, and
I. as a conjunction signifying
1. the temporal terminus ad quem, till, until (Latin donee, usque dum); as in the best writings
a. with an preterite indicative, where something is spoken of which continued up to a certain time: Matthew 2:9 (ἕως... ἔστη (ἐστάθη L T Tr WH)); Matthew 24:39 (1 Macc. 10:50; Wis. 10:14, etc.)

YOu should look at better sources.
 
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Now you are going to Hebrew to compare it to Greek and mix in english. different words with different meanings. It takes a minute to find that out.

The Hebrew is defined as unto. It is the word "ad" And ion the context it shows she was childless to her death.

Greek is "eos" =

STRONGS G2193:
ἕως, a particle marking a limit, and
I. as a conjunction signifying
1. the temporal terminus ad quem, till, until (Latin donee, usque dum); as in the best writings
a. with an preterite indicative, where something is spoken of which continued up to a certain time: Matthew 2:9 (ἕως... ἔστη (ἐστάθη L T Tr WH)); Matthew 24:39 (1 Macc. 10:50; Wis. 10:14, etc.)

YOu should look at better sources.
You should read my post before commenting. I don’t use that argument it’s ridiculous. I was talking about people who say until doesn’t mean what it actually means
 
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In modern English it would say: And joseph did not have sex with Mary until after Jesus was born.

until 1 of 2 preposition

1 : to

2 → used as a function word to indicate continuance (as of an action or condition) to a
specified time stayed until morning, e.g., stayed until morning

3 : before sense 2, e.g., not available until tomorrow; we don't open until ten

until 2 of 2 conjunction

: up to the time that : up to such time as, e.g., play continued until it got dark;
never able to relax until he took up fishing; ran until she was breathless

You claim that Scripture states in Matt. 1:25 that Joseph and Mary didn't have intercourse until after Mary gave birth to Jesus, but it doesn't; rather, it states they didn't have intercourse "until she brought forth her firstborn son." The word "until" has multiple definitions, not only the one you're inferring by your insertion of the word "after."

For the sake of argument, say the word "until" was used to mean Joseph and Mary had intercourse after Jesus's birth, that in itself wouldn't prove Mary bore more children because, for example, having vaginal intercourse doesn't lead to procreation for some men and women. Your interpretation that the gospel writer, after writing about the long-anticipated messianic prophecy coming to fruition, basically threw in the tidbit, "After the birth of the Savior, Joseph had intercourse with Mary and 6+ more kids," at the end is quite random.

It also isn't in line with the context of Matt. 1:20-25, which is Joseph's accepting as his spouse the virgin who conceived the Savior of mankind by the Holy Spirit. The gospel writer concludes the passage by stating that Joseph didn't have intercourse with Mary until Jesus's birth, to dispel any belief that he was the father. In other words, since the gospel writer's intent at the end was to show what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, so as to dispel any belief that Jesus was conceived by him, and not begotten by the Holy Spirit, they stated he remained chaste until Jesus's birth. Why would implying Joseph had intercourse with Mary post-birth of Jesus be relevant, when it's only about Jesus's paternal origin? It's not relevant, which is why the definition of "until" that you're using doesn't fit here, but rather "up to the time that," because it informs us what Joseph didn't do until a certain point, not what occurred after that point.

Yes they do and you are ignoring the context in which this was spoken. It was the skeptics speaking. There was a crowd. So it would not mean fellow country men- for then they would have meant the whole crowd of Jews!

I said "fellow countrymen" is one of the definitions of the word "brother," and that the context in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 shows Joseph, Simon, James, and Judas (Jude/Thaddeus) in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3 were Jesus's brothers, as in kinsmen, e.g., sibling, cousin, nephew, uncle, etc. In the opening post, early Christian testimonies, supported by Scripture, confirms they were Jesus's kinsmen and the sons of Jesus's mother's spouse's brother, and thus specifically His cousins. Read more carefully please.

Sorry but only in rare cases is cousin the intended meaning, especially not here. There were sufficient greek words to designate them as cousins.

Firstly, there isn't a word for "uncle," nephew," "cousin," etc., for example, in the Aramaic and Hebrew languages, and thus the OT authors (not the Septuagint translators) used a circumlocution or a word that means "kinsman," such as "אָח" ('âch) in the following cases:

אָח ('âch; plural 'âchiem)
Definition
Brown-Driver-Briggs

1) brother
1a) brother of same parents
1b) half-brother (same father)
1c) relative, kinship, same tribe
1d) each to the other (reciprocal relationship)
1e) (figuratively) of resemblance

אָח ('âch; plural 'âchiem)
Definition
Strong

A primitive word; a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like H1)): - another, brother (-ly), kindred, like, other. Compare also the proper names beginning with «Ah-» or «Ahi-».

Greek Equivalent Words:
Strong #: 80 ‑ ἀδελφός (ad‑el‑fos')...

"ויאמר אברם אל-לוט אל-נא תהי מריבה ביני ובינך ובין רעי ובין רעיך כי-אנשים אחים אנחנו." (Gen. 13:8)

"וישמע אברם כי נשבה אחיו וירק את-חניכיו ילידי ביתו שמנה עשר ושלש מאות וירדף עד-דן." (Gen 14:14)

"ויאמר לבן ליעקב הכי-אחי אתה ועבדתני חנם הגידה לי מה-משכרתך." (Gen. 29:15)

"וימת אלעזר ולא-היו לו בנים כי אם-בנות וישאום בני-קיש אחיהם." (1 Chr. 23:22)

ἀδελφός (adelphos; plural adelphoi)
Definitions
Liddell-Scott-Jones

2. kinsman, ib.Ge.13.8, al.;...

ἀδελφός (adelphos; plural adelphoi)
Definitions
Mounce

...near kinsman, or relative;

The Septuagint translators substituted the Hebrew words "אחים" ('âchiem) in Gen. 13:8 with "ἀδελφοὶ" (adelphoi) and "אָח" ('âch) in Gen 14:14 with "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) to describe kinship between Abraham and Lot which lineage shows were that of uncle and nephew: εἶπεν δὲ Αβραμ τῷ Λωτ Μὴ ἔστω μάχη ἀνὰ μέσον ἐμοῦ καὶ σοῦ καὶ ἀνὰ μέσον τῶν ποιμένων μου καὶ ἀνὰ μέσον τῶν ποιμένων σου. ὅτι ἄνθρωποι ἀδελφοὶ ἡμεῖς ἐσμεν. (Gen. 13:8) and ἀκούσας δὲ Αβραμ ὅτι ᾐχμαλώτευται Λωτ ὁ ἀδελφὸς αὐτοῦ, ἠρίθμησεν τοὺς ἰδίους οἰκογενεῖς αὐτοῦ, τριακοσίους δέκα καὶ ὀκτώ, καὶ κατεδίωξεν ὀπίσω αὐτῶν ἕως Δαν. (Gen. 14:14)

The Septuagint translators substituted the Hebrew word "אָח" ('âch) in Gen. 29:15 with "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) to describe kinship between Jacob and Laban which lineage shows were that of uncle and nephew: "Εἶπε δὲ Λάβαν τῷ ᾿Ιακώβ· ὅτι γὰρ ἀδελφός μου εἶ, οὐ δουλεύσεις μοι δωρεάν· ἀπάγγειλόν μοι, τίς ὁ μισθός σου ἐστί;" (Gen. 29:15

The Septuagint translators substituted the Hebrew word "אחים" ('âchiem) in 1 Chr. 23:21–22 with "ἀδελφοὶ" (adelphoi) to describe it was kin the daughters of Eleazar married which lineage shows was their cousins: "καὶ ἀπέθανεν Ελεαζαρ, καὶ οὐκ ἦσαν αὐτῷ υἱοὶ ἀλλ᾽ ἢ θυγατέρες, καὶ ἔλαβον αὐτὰς υἱοὶ Κις ἀδελφοὶ αὐτῶν." (1 Chr. 23:22)

Secondly, considering Plato [c. 429?–347 BCE) used the word "συγγενής" (syngenes) and Aeschylus (c. 525–456 BCE) used the word "θεῖος" (theîos), we know that the translators of the Septuagint should've been well aware of these words at the time.

Thirdly, a Lexicon shouldn't be considered just a Lexicon of the NT. It should be a Lexicon of the language itself as spoken by all of the people who used it. In other words, a complete vocabulary.

Fourthly, uncle, nephew, and cousin, etc., are encompassed under "kinsman," a definition of the word "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) in the following Koine Greek Lexicons:

ἀδελφός (adelphos; plural adelphoi)
Definitions
Liddell-Scott-Jones

2. kinsman, ib.Ge.13.8, al.;...

ἀδελφός (adelphos; plural adelphoi)
Definitions
Mounce

...near kinsman, or relative;

The reason "kinsman" is a definition of the words "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) and "ἀδελφοὶ" (adelphoi) is because they were used to describe a kinsman, e.g., uncle, nephew, cousin, etc., in Gen. 13:8;14:14;29:15, 1 Chr. 23:22, etc. For this reason, any Lexicons that don't include this definition are in error.

Word definitions aren't as "strict" as you think they are, and the same language can be used differently by different cultures, and every word can have a range of meanings beyond its most literal definition. Otherwise, slang wouldn't exist. And this isn't a modern thing.

Lastly, you can't deny "kinsman" was a definition of the word "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) during the writing of the Septuagint.

Your homework:

(i) Show when "kinsman," e.g., sibling, cousin, uncle, etc., was abandoned as a definition of the word "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) post-Septuagint and pre-New Testament.

(ii) Explain why there are Lexicons, e.g., Lidell-Scott-Jones, Mounce, etc., that include the definition "kinsman" for the word "ἀδελφός" (adelphos) if it was abandoned post-Septuagint and pre-New Testament.
 
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St. SteVen said:
How do we authenticate your extra-biblical evidence?
My first question to you would be, how do you authenticate the testimonies in the Bible?
I didn't ask for a question. I wanted an answer.

What "workarounds based on Catholic presumptions?"
Seriously?
The Bible says Jesus had brothers and sisters.
You say cousins, or whatever.
The Bible says Joseph waited until the child was born to have relations with his wife.
You say this means he never did have relations with his wife.

I don't need to hear your explanations again. I already told you that I respect your position.
I need to hear you say the same to us rather than claim you have the 'truth", thus implying that we don't.
 

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You should read my post before commenting. I don’t use that argument it’s ridiculous. I was talking about people who say until doesn’t mean what it actually means
and they are wrong as far as Matt. 1 goes. Until is the English word. it means the same as the Greek word. It is a time limit word. Jesus waited to have sex with Mary "UNTIL" Jesus was born. there is no other way to correctly translate that passage.