Actually you are speaking backwards. First...you thinking you are somehow special will get you into a lot of trouble. Didn't the Pharisees think they were special too? More special than the ones Jesus was ministering to? But Jesus didn't think so. By doing so you are forsaking humility and the fear of the Lord...which are the MINIMUM standards of salvation. So don't let anyone fool you from the simplicity which is in Christ. By that forsaking you are making unbelievers more attractive to God than yourself. Not a wise move. So you are undoing what you are setting out to do.
By entrance into the race of faith we are put into a higher race...where more is expected of us. So then we who have been baptized into Jesus will be judged the harder for it.
As in...how much can a man dig with a backhoe compared to a shovel? God judges according to what we've been given. Getting better equipped to obey God...by grace... means that God will
expect more from us. To whom much is given...more is required. God is a fair judge of all...no favourites not personal preferences...no respect of persons. So you are WAY off here.
You would have the bible say...to whom much is given...less is expected???

You are making things about us...or yourself ...rather than about God. This is about HIS realm...not a happy trails for us in ours. This idea you have is a polarity shift...a pole reversal that makes God serve us. God becomes impersonal...not having any say. So your God is one of a theory...not real.
The real God inspires
both fear AND love. Only He can do that. A make-believe God just soothes man's apprehensions...to give comfort and security...and certainty... because the theoretical God is made up by men to that very purpose. But all this is at the expense of reality and authenticity.
The truth escapes people because there is a proper polarity (duality) to it...a wheel within a wheel, a double edge to it. It is from the natural man to select verses ...from only one polarity, because they sound enticing...but only to be bitten by the other polarity they sought to avoid.
It is far wiser to take on
both polarities of the truth at the outset in order to avoid any nasty surprises later. Many, many will not follow this advice.