I disagree with you. The issue has been resolved, yet many still persist in disputing it.
I've seen passages brought up time and time again, that make clear plain statements, and no matter how fully this is presented, people still continue to misuse them.
This one "you have not chosen me, but I have chosen you" is one of my favorite examples, because it is so straightforward, and so commonly misused.
Another,
Ephesians 1:3-4 KJV
3) Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:
4) According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:
We are chosen "in Him", as Jesus is the "Elect Servant" (Isaiah 42:1). We have all spiritual blessings in Christ. If you are not "in Christ", you do not have those blessings, including election.
We are elect because He is elect, and in Him, we share what He has, including election.
Much love!