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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
 

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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
exactly let us always pray that GOD WILL GIVE us the wisdom to say the right words .
cause without him nothing pans out . You are loved and prayed for my dear sister .
march onwards in the LORD . TO HE be all glory all praise , all thanksgivings .
 

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I have social anxiety- not easy to do things sometimes, however remember that courage is not the absence of fear, it’s doing something despite the fear. If you feel prompted then The Lord will give you the grace you need to do whatever he asks of you xxxxxxxx
 

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Duckie lady , you have a new nickname .
SWAN LADY . you graduated up from lil duckie to SWAN . Now spread them wings and PRAISE THE LORD sister .
Hahaha thank you amigo I needed that. Yes I will!

I need to get myself ready for the night and make sure dinner is ready for everyone before I start the day but I appreciate the prayers so much. Will be back on tomorrow morning.
PPHS
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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
Don't underestimate just being there. Appropriate words come in stillness.
 

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Don't underestimate just being there. Appropriate words come in stillness.
There is just no better advice than ^this^ right here

I recalled a time I had felt ashamed of not going to a woman in our old neighborhood when her husband died, I absolutely froze. I had no clue what to say, I mean, how can I help anyone feel better after such a thing. What do I say, or how on earth can my words at such a sad time as this? I never really forgot about that and I always felt so terribly bad about my lack of action "to do something". I wish I knew where she was so I could wrap my arms around her and apologize a million times over.

She did not know me very well anyway, so I am sure that time (and my lack of involvement) was never something that had weighed heavily on her mind concerning me, but it weighed heavy on mine concerning her.

I ended up forgiving my own self not long after we lost our little girl many years after that time. And I got words I would have never have said, like, "I am so sorry, I understand I lost a GERBAL once" (and I laugh at this now) because the words we search for to relate to things like grief can be so lame. Ofcourse, I wasn't laughing at it back then ofcourse, I was a little ticked off at the person, "a gerbal"? Are you kidding me?! But then I thought about it in light of my old neighbor, and the thought come, "that could have been YOU!" And because I was in that place where I just didnt know what to say. And that is often followed by feeling obligated to SAY "SOMETHING".

The people said the least were the greatest comfort to me. I recall one woman coming up to me wrapping her arms around me while resting her head on my shoulder sobbing, looked at me, then kissed me, and sat down, and said nothing, just waiting for me to speak. I will never forget that too. What works seems to take the least amount of effort. With the exception of the sort of effort it takes some people to shut up (And I am speaking of myself here, because I am not always good at doing that).

But now I know a little about what not to do, there is nothing wrong with being there and just being quiet.
 

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Hey, Fluffy, just being there is often far more important than any wisdom that may flow forth from your mouth.

Just standing beside a person can be far more encouragement than we realise. Is that not what Jesus does in our lives. Does He simply just say, "I, too, am standing with you, Just accept that I am standing with you and trust in what God can do for you.
 
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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
I can empathize-since I live a very reclusive lifestyle.


Trust in God's Presence and Sovereignty

Psalm 56:3-4: "Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God (I will praise His word), in God I have put my trust; I will not fear. What can flesh do to me?"

This passage emphasizes reliance on God's strength and the assurance that He is greater than human fears.

Isaiah 41:10: "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."

Relying on the Holy Spirit for Boldness

2 Timothy 1:7: "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

Social anxiety often arises from internal fears, but this verse encourages believers to rely on the Spirit's power, love, and self-control to overcome them.

Acts 4:31: When the early Christians faced opposition and fear, they prayed, and "they were all filled with the Holy Spirit, and they spoke the word of God with boldness." Prayer can invite courage in challenging social settings.

Focus on Loving Others

1 John 4:18: "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment."

This encourages shifting focus from self-consciousness to expressing God's love toward others, alleviating fear.

Philippians 2:3-4: "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others."

Encouragement through Fellowship

Hebrews 10:24-25: "And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another."

Engaging in community, even in small steps, can help build confidence and reduce feelings of isolation.

Examples of Biblical Figures Overcoming Fear

Moses (Exodus 4:10-12): Moses expressed fear about speaking, but God reassured him, saying, "Now therefore go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall say."

Gideon (Judges 6:11-16): Though initially timid and hesitant, Gideon was reassured by God’s presence, enabling him to fulfill his calling.

Practical Steps Rooted in Scripture

Prayer and Meditation (Philippians 4:6-7): "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."

Renewing the Mind (Romans 12:2): "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."

Focus on biblical truths to replace anxious thoughts.

These scriptures collectively provide assurance of God’s presence, practical guidance for overcoming fear, and encouragement to cultivate courage and love. @DuckieLady

Remember, you are unique, and there is no one else like you, @DuckieLady. You are created in the Imago Dei-the image of our Lord Jesus Christ-and sealed with the Holy Spirit.

Johann.
 

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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
You are loved and prayed for dear sister . Onward in the glorious LORD .
 

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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
Wait and soak in the spirit listen with your heart and he will give you the words to speak don't do it on your own accord wait until he speaks to yousaok in him and you will know what to say.
 

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Thanks everyone. I will definitely be there when I can but at the same time, my schedule is a little off to be there as much as I would like. It will probably be through text most of the time for right now.

I felt like I got confirmation last night. When I got home I was reading through the Bible and it kind of reminded me to not rely on my own ability, but God instead.
 

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Thanks everyone. I will definitely be there when I can but at the same time, my schedule is a little off to be there as much as I would like. It will probably be through text most of the time for right now.

I felt like I got confirmation last night. When I got home I was reading through the Bible and it kind of reminded me to not rely on my own ability, but God instead.You know text might be the best way for you right now it is not like being in person where your anxiety would likely go up with texts you can take your time in your response
 

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Hello sister. Im introverted myself. Don't like to be around large gatherings. I use forums to try plant seeds for God. Moses was slow of speech and tried to get off his calling from God, to lead Israel out of Egypt. They were being oppressed, and Christian people today are being oppressed by wicked people. Proverbs 29:25. Fear of man will prove to be snare, but who ever trusts in the Lord is kept safe. 2 Timothy chapter 1:7. For God did not give us a Spirit of timid, but a Spirit of power, of love, and self discipline. Instead of leaning on our own understanding, Christian people need to trust God. I have issue with trust, concerning people. Satan will use wicked people, neighbors, friends or family member, to try to get to you. Lot of people don't have holy Spirit. 2 Corinthians chapter 4. Reprobates are under power of Satan. They have a unclean Spirit. Satan uses oppression, and psychological warfare on Christian people. Trying to penetrate your mimd, 2 Corinthians chapter 10. For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divime power to demolish strong holds. Wisdom Christian people have, is gospel armor of Ephesians chapter 6. Satan sends fake ministers to spread heresy and cause division in body of Christ. We will try to warn Christian people. False brethren have infiltrated this forum.
Proverbs chapter 26
Like glaze covering an earthen vessel are fervent lips with a evil heart. Who ever hates disguise himself with his lips and harbors deceit in his heart.
Keep up good work sister.
 

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I feel like God wants me to kind of be there for someone right now. I have slight social anxiety.

For some reason when it's important, my brain decides doesn't work and I can't figure out what to say. Then I'm just awkward.

But I really need that to go and so please pray God will give me the wisdom to say the right words and take off this social anxiety, so I can be a better support.

Thank you
Praying for you.