Can anyone tell me who it was that Jesus said while on the cross.....
"Then He said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” From that hour the disciple took her into his own household."
Unless memory fails me was this not John... Jesus' beloved disciple???
But again, John was never called a brother of Jesus'
However... PAUL in Gal 1:
18 Then three years later I went up to Jerusalem to
1become acquainted with Cephas, and stayed with him fifteen days.
19 But I did not see any other of the apostles
except James, the Lord’s brother.
Question ~ Who was this James that Paul called by name?
Matthew 13:55-56 names Jesus’ brothers: James, Joseph, Simon, and Judas and mentions sisters (plural), so He had at least six siblings.
Answer ~ Mathew says James is Jesus' brother and as he is always named first seems to be the oldest of Jesus' siblings.
James – The Brother of Jesus, James was a brother of Jesus and the son of Mary and Joseph (
Matthew 13:55).
- 54 And when he was come into his own country, he taught them in their synagogue, insomuch that they were astonished, and said, Whence hath this man this wisdom, and these mighty works?
- 55 Is not this the carpenter's son? is not his mother called Mary? and his brethren, James, and Joses, and Simon, and Judas?
further... It appears that many , even historians, have called James Jesus' brother.
Also,
Josephus’ story of the
death of James, the Lord’s brother, suggests that he was a leader in the early
church (
Josephus Antiquities xx. 9. 1; cf. Vol. V, p. 71). In addition, Christian tradition, at least from the 2d century, recognizes James, the leader of the church at Jerusalem, as the Lord’s brother (Hegesippus, quoted by Eusebius Ecclesiastical History ii. 23).
Now.... I have not found anywhere that tells us James was a cousin to Jesus. I also have read that Mary was likely between 12 and 16 years old when she gave birth to Jesus, as by Jewish law she could not marry before the age of 12. Most articles written suggest that Joseph likely was around 20.
6 kids plus Jesus. If the six were step brothers and sisters.... That would mean they all were older then Jesus
as well as if Joseph was around 20... it would be impossible.
But... from
How old were Joseph & Mary when they marrried?
13 A nun in my Catholic school taught us that Mary was 14 and Joseph was 17 and that this was not atypical for the day. Also that in Joseph's case his Marriage to Mary was his second. Would there be any ancient text or tradition at all relating to Joseph's first wife (the presumed mother of Jude)? catholicism marriage virgin-mary tradition
The list of links that say about 20 can be found here
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