Deceiving Yourself?

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MatthewG

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There are many people who support a doctrine in which they themselves become sinlessly perfect in their flesh. To me it's quite an unbiblical notion due to a writing of John's which states (1 John 1:8) if we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. The people state that once a person is born of God they never go on to sin ever again, how can that be true? When John explicitly states, that if we say we have no sins, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. People typically do sin, when they are arguing to argue, it's called dissension. Are people ignorant of this? Most likely due to the fact, that word is founded in (Galatians 5:20) concerning the acts of the flesh however the word must be defined if one is going to look into what that even means! Just think about it, if a person uses a word, which you never heard before anyway how do you understand what it is if you do not seek out what the definition is? Now, while God's will is for people to become sanctified. Is that Sanctification within the flesh; or is the one the mind/heart/emotions of the person from the fleshly demeanor to the (John 15:4) abiding in the Messiah, whom helps with the renewing of our mind/heart/emotions to the truths founded in looking towards Yahavah, his Father. Being renewed inwardly from the heart, even so, this flesh lives, we do fall short from time to time: told hold ourselves as though they never sin, they never mess up, they never fail; is a total lie to ourselves. That is why John states what he does! "If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." So, how do we reconcile the scripture which states in some translations concerning Johns's same letter, in chapter 3 (1 John 3:9) verse 9; (King James Version) Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.

While I do not mind the King James Version of the Bible, there are some misnomers found within the text itself. Using this verse from (1 John 3:9) against (1 John 1:8) is a contradiction found now! In one instance, John states "If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth in not in us." I know myself, I fail, probably on a daily more than I realize because of my selfish nature that lives within me, that rises up from time to time in my life, my life is known in front of the Living God. I will never be able to say "Look at me God, I didn't fall short anymore!" It's Jesus that helps us from falling short, by the Spirit of Christ within you, if so you are of the Lord Yeshua (Romans 9:9-11) Paul wrote this to the Saints at Rome. Therefore, the truth is, we do sin. Naturally. I'm not a better citizen just because of doing good things, or feeling like I do good things. It's trusting in God in faith, and having him help you in your hearts and mind, even with your falling short, because it's stated in the Book of Romans as well (Romans 3:23-24) "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus."

If all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, what makes one think that they can just no longer all of a sudden no fall anymore by the means of the flesh? As again once more John wrote, concerning that "if we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not within us." Yet in 1 John 3:9, in the King James Version states, that "Whoeverso is born of God does not commit sin, for his seed remains in h I'm, and he can not sin because he is born of God."

The truth is, that those whom are born again, they abide in Christ, even though their flesh does fail from time to time, perhaps more than they been able to recognize does not go on to make a "practice of sinning." They instead of going in by the fleshly means when someone disagrees with them, or mocks them, or laughs at them, they instead go to God, and seek his help, by the spirit of Christ within them, to instead of reacting in a defensive way, responds in a humble, contrite way, or perhaps doesn't say anything at all, as the spirit brings forth love, peace, kindness, etc... (Galatians 5:22-24).

Don't believe me? There are other versions of the bible, concerning the scripture that John had wrote, in (1 John 3:9) that differs from the statement made in the King James Version, which I don't have a problem with; though the contradicting statements argument is just not concise in truth. Just take a look at the verses below, it's concerning "practice of sinning." The flesh can not be perfect, the holy spirit/spirit of Christ sanctify the mind/hearts of the person to be moved by the spirit, rather than the flesh, and even so they change their minds of reacting within the flesh and more of the spirit, by dying to the flesh and living to the spirit. The truth is, we do fall short, will fall short, however our sins have been forgiven, it just up to you to decide whether or not you will deceive yourself, or realize the matter concerning how these contradictions have to be reconciled there seems to have to be a reconciliation at least to me, and in my of course opinion.


English Standard Version
No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’s seed abides in him; and he cannot keep on sinning, because he has been born of God.

Berean Standard Bible
Anyone born of God refuses to practice sin, because God’s seed abides in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God.

Berean Literal Bible
Anyone having been born of God does not practice sin, because His seed abides in him, and he is not able to continue sinning, because he has been born of God.
 

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While I do not mind the King James Version of the Bible, there are some misnomers found within the text itself. Using this verse from (1 John 3:9) against (1 John 1:8) is a contradiction found now!

John's purpose in writing the letter is stated up front in 1 John 2:1: He is exhorting his "little children" to strive against sin. By my count, John tells his audience more than 20 times, up until the last verse, "don't sin"

1 My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin.

In chapter 3, John introduces our new identity:

1 See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! (1 John 3:1a)

Next two verses: When Christ comes back (sorry, preterists; your own sin is proof that He hasn't appeared yet), it is promised that we will be like He is. So, John exhorts us to purify ourselves NOW so to live into our new identity as "Children of God".

2 Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not appeared as yet what we will be. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him, because we will see Him just as He is. 3 And everyone who has this hope fixed on Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.... 5 You know that He appeared in order to take away sins; and in Him there is no sin. (1 John 3:2-3;5)

And children of God don't sin:

6 No one who abides in Him sins; no one who sins has seen Him or knows Him....9 No one who is born of God practices sin, because His seed abides in him; and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.

Verses 6 and 9 serve the stated purpose of the letter by describing what a Child of God looks like. Whether or not we are successful in living into that identify ISN'T THE POINT. John already conceded immediately after stating the letter's theme in chapter 2 that sin may still happen. The point is to try to live like Children of God NOW.
 
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Hello @Lambano,

Do you have any comments on anything that was written? Thank you for writing what you have, just curious if you understood the message or not or you just decided to comment your thoughts on some things, concerning the letter John had written. I am a bit confused. I would like to engage with has been written already, but if not that is okay.
 
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There are many people who support a doctrine in which they themselves become sinlessly perfect in their flesh.

There is the born again Spirit, that is the literal "Son/Daughter" of God, that exists inside your dying body that is "dead because of sin".

And this is the CHRISTian........this is the redeemed born again spirit, that is going to get a NEW BODY.

So, the Born again Spirit, that is the "new creation in Christ" is always sinless, "made free from sin", and "not under the Law, but under Grace".
 

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Hello @Behold,

I agree, that the Spirit of Christ within a person can not sin, however the body still does. What is important is not making a practice to what the body does.
 
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Hello @Lambano,

Thank you for clarifying that matter. I understand your point regarding the importance of avoiding sin (not practicing sin); that is indeed essential. It revolves around not allowing our inherent sinful inclinations to dominate our actions. The Spirit of Christ within us does not engage in sin and instead fosters positive outcomes by the fruits that are produced. Such as love, peace, mercy, forgiveness, kindness, etc...
 

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Hello @Lambano,

Thank you for clarifying that matter. I understand your point regarding the importance of avoiding sin (not practicing sin); that is indeed essential. It revolves around not allowing our inherent sinful inclinations to dominate our actions. The Spirit of Christ within us does not engage in sin and instead fosters positive outcomes

That's John's point. My own point was about how to properly understand 1 John 3:9 in the context of the overall theme of the letter.
 

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Thank you again @Lambano, and @Behold both for your contributions to the thread.

I think people often get tricked by ideas about traditions. A lot of it is on us for not really reading the Bible in context, and as Lambano pointed out, the bigger picture. I see people twisting the scripture to make themselves look good, kind of like when Jesus told the story of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector.

Founded in Luke 18;
9 To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’

13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’

14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

I believe these are truths that also deal with the practice of becoming prideful in oneself. Which in all of this, can lead to deceiving oneself. That is not good.
 

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Hello @Behold,

I agree, that the Spirit of Christ within a person can not sin, however the body still does.

You have not realized that "the old man of sin is dead, crucified with Christ"...

Do you think you will ever realize it, and "reckon it DEAD"... and Paul teaches?

So, that is why you see yourself, not as God sees the born again.

Also, whatever you do with your body, you chose to do it with your mind...so, the body is just the vehicle, and you believe its in charge.

Its not. @MatthewG
 

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Hello @Behold,

Please refrain from making assumptions about my self-perception. Comments like this are considered projections and fall under the category of "flaming" or "goading."
 

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Thank you again @Lambano, and @Behold both for your contributions to the thread.

I think people often get tricked by ideas about traditions. A lot of it is on us for not really reading the Bible in context,

@MatthewG

If you studied the bible, and were rightly dividing the word.. you would not be a deceived Preterist, who does not believe that Hell exists and who believes the Devil is powerless.

Did i miss any of your cult theology?

If so, would you remind us of the rest of this nonsense you believe?
 

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@MatthewG, how do you think we deceive ourselves?

By thinking of ourselves as sinless?

By thinking that we are not responsible for and God will not hold us accountable for the thoughts, words, and deeds of our flesh because we consider ourselves "Born Again"?

Or by thinking ourselves as no longer Children of God when we do sin?

The first two are the ditch on the left-hand side of the road; the last is the ditch on the right.
 

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Hello @Lambano,

I must request that you return to the original post and review it in order to grasp the ongoing discussion. Although it is extensive, it is beneficial for those seeking to comprehend the overall topic, which pertains to the doctrine of "sinless perfection."
 

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Hello @Behold,

Please refrain from making assumptions about my self-perception.

You stated that you are a preterist, who does not believe in Hell, nor do you believe that the Devil has power.

Those are your own posted words on this Forum.. so, i'd appreciate it if you were honest about them, and refrain from accusing me falsely. @MatthewG
 

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Hello @Lambano,

I must request that you return to the original post and review it in order to grasp the ongoing discussion. Although it is extensive, it is beneficial for those seeking to comprehend the overall topic, which pertains to the doctrine of "sinless perfection."
Do you not see how what I am saying pertains to the doctrine of sinless perfection?

I must be a crappy communicator.
 

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Hello @Lambano,

I thanked you for your contributions and understood your post. If you choose not to read what was written I've stated already, that is okay. I'm just personally off work, very tired, and don't feel all that well. If you would like to gather what I have stated or not is totally up to you. I believe its beneficial for many people out there, though they can take it just as an opinion and not assert it with truth. People make their choices, and I love them either way. Just as I love you, Behold, and anyone else who would like to comment on the topic at hand of what was written. I do not think you are a crappy communicator.
 

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Hello @Behold,

I do not appreciate personal attacks which are off-topic. I love you nonetheless.