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192) Eph 5:22 . .Wives, submit to your husbands as to The Lord.
In other words; it's not the husband himself who merits his wife's best
behavior, rather, it's his position in the home. For example:
"To the woman he said: Your husband . . he will rule over you." (Gen 3:16)
Adam was ranked superior to Eve not because of his gender, rather, because
he was the senior of the two, i.e. Adam was born first; thus all men,
including Christ, are entitled to seniority relative to women simply by virtue
of the fact that they are Adam's paternal descendants.
So then:
"Demonstrate your fear of God by standing up in the presence of elderly
people and showing respect for the aged. I am The Lord." (Lev 19:32)
Rising to one's feet for the elders among us carries over to revering God
because He too is an elder among us. God likely doesn't look His age--
except maybe in a figure of speech, e.g. Dan 7:9 --but we really should keep
in mind that He's among us as not only a better, but also a senior. So we
would do well to step aside for God, carry His bags, and/or hold a door open
for Him not only because he's a deity and a monarch, but mainly because He's
older.
The Greek word for "submit" is the very same for submit in Eph 5:21 which
shouldn't be taken to mean wives are supposed to take orders from their
husbands as if marriage were an arrangement similar to a monarch and a
commoner. What we're talking about here is deference rather than obedience.
Deference is agreeable, approachable, tactful, and diplomatic. Deference
isn't confrontational, demanding, assertive, militant, dominating, nor always
clamoring: I am woman! Hear me roar!
In a nutshell: deference is just the opposite of defiance. Christian wives
striving for equality with their men have not yet learned what it means to
associate with a husband as they would Christ.
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