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[Zeth4500]

They can do that thru temptation and direction of the person.

exactly, possession exists in any forms and youre right- maybe im simply calling accepting demonic influence as possession, as she does struggle with demonic spirits putting bad thoughts into her head, selfdestructive and seeding doubt in anything good steering her to do bad things.

 

[Raccoon1010]

exactly, possession exists in any forms and youre right- maybe im simply calling accepting demonic influence as possession, as she does struggle with demonic spirits putting bad thoughts into her head, selfdestructive and seeding doubt in anything good steering her to do bad things.

Yes perhaps. Sometimes with self destructive behavior it is simply a matter of reconditioning. Condition of a person can be caused by many things including low self esteem and other areas of mental, emotional and physical damage. The other cause of conditioning is bad influences and situational repetitious negative interactions and behaviors. Over time a person might become conditioned to expect bad choices and also it might become a weakness.

If the bad influences and situations are removed from a persons life and they are brought to engage in healthy interactions and influences the problem could go away over time.

If conditioning is the problem then it takes time to set in, and also time to relieve. Conditioning is kind of a way that a person forms a habit. And that it why healthy engaging in life is important to break those habits. And like I said it can take time and sometimes months to get relief.

I certainly hope she is influenced by God and Christians to engage in religion and church and service. I found that is a good way to change lifestyle and conditioning, including habits.

 

[Zeth4500]

including low self esteem and other areas of mental, emotional and physical damage.

yes i have vast insight in psychology and as i see it, from a treatment perspective it will be very difficult, the obstacle seems very supernatural. im not 100% sure what to classify her mental issues as but its wavering between difficult and completely impossible to adjust

I certainly hope she is influenced by God and Christians to engage in religion and church and service. I found that is a good way to change lifestyle and conditioning, including habits.

she is not, she is sorrounded by the most disastrous people ive ever met in my entire life in the fallen area of europe, one of them a very aggressive energy vampire (i found ties to demonic possession for energy vampires..)
im the only christian shes in contact with. she comes with me to church when we do spend time together, but theres a long way.

 

[PossibleThrowawayAccount]

im very disappointed by these replies, i dont think there has been any tangible response addressing any of what im asking about
even going as far as claiming the government (a satanic entity) as holding any significance in a christian talk, and no one questioning this mindset- is alarming to say the least.
i came here to seek christian advice, not legal advice; i have LAWYERS who are professional in this and know what theyre talking about.

im quitting this forum as result of this.

Not our faults that we needed more infornation about what was going on before giving you advice. What did you want from us, validation? Pity? Genuine advice?

I don't see what this other person's bisexuality has to do with this topic, unless it was because this board is intended for a group of people who happen to be unfortunately predominantly homophobic (often to a very disgusting degree) and you saw it as a leverage against them.

I remember your thread where you say you considered yourselves married since you did fornicate, but as it stands you guys would be simply breaking up rather than divorcing. Divorce is a legal procedure that requires paperwork, splitting of assets, documentation, etc. What you would have is just a break up.

I would like to know why you guys just can't wait out the terms of her contract?