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She didn't beat me up. I let her do what she did and didn't do anything because that is who I am. It's called strength of character. I don't hit women, it has nothing to do with being a coward. A coward is someone who hits another that cannot hurt them back. I am not scared of anyone, except...

Okay, coward, whatever you say! I should have said coward then. Only a coward uses physical violence on a woman. I took the abuse, because a man doesn't use physical violence on a woman. Something you either never learned or ignored. My grandfather taught me that. He fought in WWII. He never...

As I said, I do not take advice from men (calling you a man is an actual stretch as men do not use physical violence against women) who slap their girlfriends, for any reason and yes, slapping is physical violence. You are literally bragging about it. "I never hit that that girl in public but...

Thank you!

I don’t take advice from someone who slaps his girlfriend or uses any type of physical violence against a woman. And just so you know I mean what I say, my ex-wife was physically abusive with me three times. Twice she slapped me across the face and once she tried to strangle me. Never, did I...

Looks like I learned something new today, thank you! People should be open to learning new things and not assume what they think they know is completely correct.

Than you’re not following God’s inspired words in verse 21 if your not allowing your husband to submit to you. 21 submitting to one another in the fear of [f]God.

What about verse 21 right before 22, you know, where it says submit to one another? Just because you would become a wife, it doesn’t mean that verse 21 disappears. It is still there. There were no paragraph breaks when the scriptures were written and verse 21 went with verse 22. Some Bibles...

You’re forgetting the verse right before, the one where it says submit to one another. Do you allow your husband to submit to you?

No one has said that work that is paid is the only worthwhile work.

Yet, another all encompassing statement. Even though Wrangler has me on ignore, I am going to respond to this. My ex- wife and I went through marriage counseling while we’re still married. She stopped going because the counselor seemed to her to be on my side because she was agreeing with me...

It is not a broken ideology. A few extremists causing problems does not mean that the ideology is broken.

I have defended my point of view throughout this thread. You have commented on said defense. I am saying that not all are like yours because you have yet to acknowledge that your marriage is not representative of others or that your marriage will work for all other people. I am not trying to...

That’s good then. It is still your own experience and not representative of all others.

You completely missed the point of my reply to you. I have already said how my marriage will be, you have commented on it. I will give you an example of how we’re doing things now. Even though we do not live together and aren’t married, my fiance and I share finances. We help each other out...

Again, this is you and your marriage. It is not representative of all marriages. You keep doing this, taking your experience and making it for all marriages across the board. Your marriage is not another’s and so on down the line. And no wonder you argued about things, you admitted that when...

For you, it was an idol for you and your family. It doesn’t mean it is an idol for everyone, man or woman. So, you had no autonomy to make your own decisions and not cave to peer pressure. It doesn’t make university bad for all people, it just means it was bad for you. Others have self-control...

This is where your thinking fails, because you’re not thinking it all the way through. A man who is a husband should be helping the wife and sharing in the responsibilities of keeping a home and raising children if he wants to be married. You’re right, if a man allows the woman to do all three...

There is more than that as a possible reason for what’s going on with marriages. I will definitely be helping my fiance when we get married to realize her dreams as she will help me. And you would be wrong for telling them so. If you want to have the marriage that you describe, have it, but...

Okay. So this is your marriage. Your marriage isn't someone else's marriage. Someone else's marriage can work the way I stated. A man should help the woman with her dreams as well. Your dreams do not take a backseat because you are married. A man should be willing and able to help her just as...